My girlfriend suddenly told me that I give her a lot of pressure, and she is askin me to let her go...at first I didnt understand what she meant by pressuring her, then she told me that she feels like she has to report to me about everything she does, and how I tell my friends to do things to her liking etc...I dont know what to do, i really dont want to lose her...
2007-01-01 14:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by Lantis D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like high school saga, move on, give her space, if it was true love she will come back
2007-01-01 14:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels like you are trying to control her and I can tell you that will get you resistance, sooner or later. At least she is telling you what the problem is. If you don't want to lose her, then just flat out ask her if there is a chance for the two of you, if you lay off of doing these things . If not ,then she just wants to move on, I think.
You need to evaluate the situation yourself and see what & where you can reflect back on ,that you can start to not do now.
Good Luck, I truly hope it works out for you & if it doesn't, it was never meant to be. Everything works out for the best !!
2007-01-01 22:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you really think...If you want her to tell you everything that she does, then you are going to lose her...Duh...But if you want her to feel like she can get away some things, then let her know that you don't have to know about every little thing that she does. Just talk to her and I think you will save your relationship.
2007-01-01 22:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by J-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants more space and more freedom. She doesn't want you to control her life. She needs to make her own decisions. Just let her go if she complains you right now, she will complain more later. Nothing you can do, leave her alone for a while and see whether she will back to you. No begging!
2007-01-01 22:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space! She needs this!
Trust her and let her be herself! Like you need to have your own space and be yourself!
We are not all that different! Men and Women!
Love her with your heart! Nothing less!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2007-01-01 22:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to give you one last chance and that you will give her that space that she's asking and trust.... and do it!!! if you love her you must learn to let go alittle... if she loves you at first she will go and do her thing but, she will get tierd and ask her self why all the space and come back to you... she might think that you stop caring and she will change... just don't call her let her call you... its hard but worth it... if you want to get what you want... girls are wierd...
2007-01-01 22:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably too controlling and don't notice it. Present to her that you'll give her more freedom in exchange for a chance to re-kindle.
2007-01-01 22:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill a lil bit..if u want to know what she was doin..dont just say where were u..ask a question like was it fun.."did u have a good time./.what happened ..and so on...she has rights and she shouldnthave to report everything....
2007-01-01 22:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go....lls
2007-01-01 22:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by charles d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋