Me and my x broke up about 1 month ago because of some small problems, we both go to diffrent colleges, and she cheated on me a couple of times. We have started to talk again and she is telling me that she made a huge mistake and she was not being herslef. Now she wants me back in her life and to take things slow. She has been telling me that she did not relize how much i ment to her untill i was gone. She still tells me that she loves me and I Still love her very much too.
I really love her and care about her very much, but can I trust her now, and should i get bac in a relationship with her again? I really love her but I do not want to get hurt again. What should I do???
2007-01-01 13:55:32 · 4 answers · asked by B-ryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well as you can see she has a problem with monogamy. If someone truly loves you it is very simple they do not cheat on you. There is no other answer when it come to love. And also they will tell you the truth even if it is difficult. So ask yourself do you think she really loves you. The answer you come up with should be no. Now for your feelings. You must understand what unhealthy relationships are and come to understand that if you choose to engage in them you will undoubtedly become unhealthy yourself making it impossible to notice what is healthy when health crosses your path. You will need to be counseled in this area to become healthy again. Now ask yourself is this the life you want to live. Live in the truth not in denial you will only have yourself to blame when you become a broken spirited person. And you don't want that. The damage only takes a little while to complete its work however it take 3 if not 4 time more time to correct the damage. So understand what you are playing with and its the health of your mind and spirit. Stay strong in the truth and Good luck.
2007-01-01 14:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by bronz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have the answear already. I think you should take one step at a time don't rush into anything. you can trust her again by forgiving her. AND NEVER NEVER NEVER!!!!!!!through it up in her face. If you want to move forward with her then let it go. It will be very hard at first but just keep reminding yourself that everyone makes mistakes. and you are the one she chose over them all. "Good Luck"
2007-01-01 22:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by kymmibme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how you met her that who she will always be... you deserves someone who wont do those things to you... this is why i don't understand why all the nice guys end up with girls like that and all the nice girls end up with jerks... is not love what you feel anymore b-cause you will never thrust her again there will be a litter thorn that she manage to live you in your heart and be live me it wont go away until you meet some one who will respect you and love you from the beginning until the end, not from the start then f***s up start all over again and this time i will be good... it doesn't work like that .. follow your ins-tins and used your head...
2007-01-01 22:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said 2 things. we broke up b/c of small problems. AnD she cheated on me a couple times. If you broke up how could that be cheating???
2007-01-01 22:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋