like i called him the other day to see what he was doing...and he said hell call me back to see if i wanted to go to a show with him, he never called me, never wished me a happy new years and i havent seen him in like a week and a half. hes a sweet guy when i do hang out with him, he tells me he loves me and treats me really good. but whats going on with him now??? we havent been together for a really long time either, hes not ashamed of me like he introduces me as his gf anywhere he goes, whys he like ditching me and ignoring me??
2007-01-01 13:42:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 18 and hes 21 btw
2007-01-01 13:49:15 · update #1
maybe something is going on with family that he cant share yet, or maybe you 2 are getting 2 serious and he is confused,, dont like call him a million times or anything,,,,be patient,,he will come around! and when he does,,dont crazy question him about where he was or did,,let him confide in you in his own time, act cool and relaxed,,if he cares he will deal with the problem and come around,,,if he is an a s s H o ---- ,,you would not look 2 needy,,! :)
2007-01-01 13:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by hopeless_romantic_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) He said he'd call you back and he didn't.
2) He hasn't contacted you to wish you a Happy New Year.
3) You say you haven't seen him in a week and a half..that means there was no gift exchange for Christmas (or Haunakah).
4) He's nice to you when YOU hang out with HIM, but can't be bothered to make time to spend with you.
5) You admit you haven't been "together" for a really long time.
Sweetie, it's obvious. You might think you are his girlfriend, but as far as he's concerned, you are only a friend who happens to be a girl.
Face it. He's just not that into you. He's ignoring you because he has a "real" girlfriend somewhere and that's who he's spending all his time with.
2007-01-01 13:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by devil_bunny_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Mary maybe he just wants some time to himself right now. Maybe the way you think he feels about the relationship is not the way he feels about the relationship. The simple solution to this problem is not to ask me why your boyfriend is acting weird. Did you try asking HIM!? Why he is acting as you call it weird!? Communication is a one of my principles to a very affective relationship. Try following my other biblical principles for testing your man for your other Why questions you might have.
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.
The Main thing Mary is just to ask him first! then when you know the reason that you might be able to know the Whys and move toward a better relationship! God Bless
2007-01-01 14:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not really the attached type
he probably wants a girlfriend but is asking for his space or he might have some other problems going on
Try talking to his friends and if he gets upset that you were talking to them
tell him dat you really do care for him and that you wanted to be sure dat he was okay
2007-01-01 13:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by BabYJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think you should see if you can contact one of his nice friends and ask them if they feel as if he's been acting weird. Maybe something happened in his family that he's scared to tell you, maybe you go to his house when he's at sport training or something and suss it out from his mom or dad, good luck!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 13:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, find someone that you can be with. That is simple. Nice but hardly see and only at his convience? Something wrong? If you were happy would you be asking? Go find someone to be happy with.
2007-01-01 13:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hope I'm wrong. But id say hes met someone else, it is the party season... esp if you didn't spend new years together...
Good luck.
2007-01-01 13:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love aww how sweet. Boys are just like that at this age so you need to start getting use to it or Not date till you are older.
2007-01-01 13:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by algal04 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he took the coward's way out and broke up with you.
2007-01-01 13:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask him what is going on and hope that he is not doing anything he is not suppose to
2007-01-01 13:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by joesy617 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋