This girl won't stop texting my man!!! How do I cope?

Question

He never replies to her messages or answers her calls, but she won't leave him alone. The messages she sends are "friendly", nothing at all really, but while he and I were broken up recently, he was interested in her, and they went out a couple of times. I want to trust him and believe him when he tells me that he wants her to stop bothering him, but I just want her to stop. How do I tell him that I have a problem with her always trying to get in touch with him again without it sounding like I don't trust him to handle the problem himself?

Answer 1

Just explain to him that it bothers you because of the time when you were broken up. If he doesn't understand that, give him a few days and tell him again that it bothers you. But tell him that you trust him and you know that he is not doing anything to cause you not to trust him, you just don't like her texting him.

Answer 2

Ive been in this situation, you need to put thembothin check, show ur man whos boss, and text the hoe back, dont deal with it, ur a strong woman, something isnt right, hes not telling you something, i know from expirience. This isnt something you "talk" about, this is something that you enforce, there should be no buisness going on behind your back. And if she still texting him, then the relationship between them is way deeper then he even thought of telling you. Dont trust his word, he is texting her back, i can smell it, Trust me, I saved my friends marriage because of things like this, I know theswe things, delt with it for 4 years

Answer 3

ok this is happening with my brother and his gf... u need to sit down with him and let him know that u dont like this girl calling/texting or whatever. like when if u get a hold of his phone erase her number. just do it..

let him know that u do want to trust him and that u know that he is capable of doing it himself but it is really bothering u..

just open up to him and let him know how u feel

any ? just email me!

sd

Answer 4

Im havin the same situation with my ex gf. i choose her back cuz she broke up with me purely approximately 2 months in the past yet she purely desires to stay buddies whilst shes off flirtin n liking sumone else. Pisses me off everytime i think of bout it. for my section i wuld purely enable her have her freedom n see if she comes bak to u. Dont check along with her or attempt to get her interest purely wait til she includes u n take it sluggish. Dont attempt to get at her it purely makes issues worse. Do ur own factor n wait n see if she misses u n wat she had in any different case flow on.

Answer 5

Hmmm.
Ask him to tell her.
Tell him that you trust him, but that this girl is just pissing you off, straightforward.
You are giving him this responsibility, becuae you believe in him and trust him wnough to not need to do it yourself.

Answer 6

How do you know that he's not answering her when you aren't around or encouraging her to text him or call him. If he's not then he needs to change his cell phone number and then you won't have to worry about it anymore.

Answer 7

you have to talk to him and he's the one that must put an end to it, thats what I did, there was this girl who would not stop looking for my husband (we were already married and she knew it), she would call my house, go to his work... I told him to ask her to stop it, and he did. I've never seen her again

Answer 8

Tell him to have her stop by telling her that you two are back together. It all begins and ends with your man.

Answer 9

If he's not replying, then I'd say he's handling the problem. What more do you want?

Answer 10

Have him change his Phone number.Then she can quite keeping in touch with him.If he tell you no then be careful he might be cheating.