so i started going out with this guy. His parents think were ready for sex. And i think hes ready. but i'm not i'm afraid if i don't its over between us
2007-01-01 13:30:55 · 34 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he told me his parents thought it this was before they met me it's because of his brother. And i'm not sure he is ready
2007-01-01 13:39:26 · update #1
I can't imagine how that conversation went...
"Son, come in here for a moment. Mom and I decided that you and Honey should have sex. Don't worry, Mom is calling Honey to tell her the good news. Now, go to it!"
Seriously, do NOT have sex with him. You will regret it and it is not fair to yourself at all. If he loves you and cares about you he will wait. If he breaks up with you he is doing you a big favor.
2007-01-01 13:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but i doesnt depend on is parents n only hes fellings it depends on urs 2 if ur not ready ur not u have 2 be ready n tahst taking a big step hes parants shouldnt b between that n if he really loves u hes gona wait for u it kant b over jzt because u guys arnt having sex thats redicolius* n if he does break up with u dont even worry he jzt a dumm azz for doing that u cant have sex unless ur ready n u want 2 dont do it 2 pleasure someone else ok take care n i hope u take the right decison ok
good luck
2007-01-01 13:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by 9U3R@ bBY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what that it is over.
With parents like that, the son cant be about too much.
If he loves you, he would respect your wishes and wait and his parents would MIND their own business. THAT IS TOO PERSONAL for his parents to have a say on. It is your body and your life PERIOD!
Dont do it to keep him
chances are if that is the motivation he will eventually leave anyway
wait until YOU are ready and not a second before.
(p.s. If your parents knew that his parents were encouraging that, they would probably press charges)
2007-01-01 13:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the thought that his parents have an opinion in the matter and that they have made it known is just gross. If you are not ready then you are not ready and if he is pressuring you then he is an asshole and you should get rid of him.
Especially if he is using the fact that his parents think you are ready... it just sounds like a weird situation and I would get out of it if I were you!
2007-01-01 13:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is going to be over between you two because you're not ready to have sex, well then there was nothing real there to start with. If he loves you, he will respect your wishes and that is the bottom line.
2007-01-01 13:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is simple really. if you're not ready, then don't do it. it doesn't matter if other people are ready for you to have sex, because that is something that is between you and your man. do it because you love him, not because other people want you too. if you do it before you are ready, you may regret it, which could cause problems in your relationship.
2007-01-01 13:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's over because you say no- then he's not for you... You shouldn't let any guy pressure you into something that you're not completely ready for. If he really cares about you then he'll wait. Remember that it's your body and your decision and you're going to have to deal with it too.
2007-01-01 13:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I think you are not ready. When you are ready you will know. who care what his parents think. Your boyfriend should respect you more than that than to let his parents be a part of such an Intimate part of your relationship.
2007-01-01 13:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by algal04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding. He was probably ready the first time he saw you., but if you're not ready then he doesn't have much choice but to wait or find someone else.
2007-01-01 13:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then just move on! If he can't, or won't, respect that you're not ready for a sexual relationship with him, then he's not worth your time anyway! His parents have no say in the sexual relationship!
2007-01-01 13:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋