I was with this girl for a few weeks, but we weren't official, because i am leaving town in a couple of weeks for a long time. We decided to hang out until i leave, and call it off then. Las nite, i was at a party at her house, and flirted w/ other girls. She told me to leave, and i did. My behavior was completely inappropriate caused by a lot of alcohol, but i feel like i have sinned agains myself. I am usually very respectful. What can i do to make things somewhat ok, not that it matters, because i am leaving, but i feel really bad. Thanks for your help
2007-01-01 13:28:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, lay off the alcohol, tell her your sorry and tell her the truth. Hope You Get To Fix Things!p.s. you should take her something nice!
2007-01-01 13:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really nice guy to even care how you leave things. I would just try to see this girl and tell you are sorry or if she will not see you, send her a small letter letting her know you are sorry and what you did was inappropriate.
What she does with that is her problem. It will say what kind of person she really is.
2007-01-01 21:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by MES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say just what you posted your behavior was inappropriate and you are sorry. Do this sooner than later. it may not make things okay but you tried. Keep this in mind the next time you drink so things don't get out of control.
2007-01-01 21:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by wes41550 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, lick your wounds, learn from your mistake, and move on. Don't turn into a pussywhipped loser and start showering her with flowers and such. Simply apologize, state your case that you were intoxicated, but don't go overboard with tons of roses and stuff because that will make you look like you have no balls and that flirting is some sort of mortal sin or crime.
2007-01-01 21:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by shlangemann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your really sorry and you feel stupid and awful and you regret what you did. Before you leave give her a gift or something. What always works is that if you sing for her over the phone. It doesn't matter how bad you are, find a song that describes how you feel and sing it to her. She'll forgive you. Trust me.
2007-01-01 21:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great that u feel bad! That shows you have a good heart. Give her a box of chocolates, a teddy bear, and a dozen red roses to show her shes your one and only girl. If that doesn't work then leave her. ur cute n-e-ways so u could find another girl.
2007-01-01 21:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Justine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So i doubt any one would agree with me on this but; if you made it clear that you were just friends maybe with some benifits then that is your right to hit on other girls. Grantid it SUCKS for the girl who liked you or who you were in some sence with but the fact of the matter was upfront. Ask yourself if desppite what you told her about it being non commited if you led her to think differantly
2007-01-01 21:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kirdy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A yellow flower or daisys in white and a face 2 face talk just to get the guilt out
2007-01-01 21:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by e.jlo909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her apologize tell her you do not want her to remember you like that and ask her out one more time ask her to give you a chance to make it up to her before you leave apologize again then tell her to call you when she has made her mind up hang up!
she will call you back
2007-01-01 21:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chocolates say "I love you" and Flowers say "I'm sorry"... get her a bundle of chocolate roses with a card. It's thoughtful and not expensive as real flowers. Whether she accepts your apology or not- you did the right thing.
2007-01-01 21:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋