okay so my boyfriend just dumped me and now my "bff" is like all over him and flirting with him allllllllllll the time! it's so annoying what should i do? if i try to talk to her about it she just ignores me.
2007-01-01 13:20:30 · 21 answers · asked by Toriful♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you answered your own question, obviously shes not your bff, so.. forget her!
2007-01-01 13:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just breathe & Realize that it is a very highschool thing & that in college u will finally make BFFL's who are literally like sisters to you. They will care more about you than themselves, & their blood will boil if anyone even slightly insults you. I know its not much help, but just know its a part of highschool. And the Best advice i can tell you after a breakup, even if u dumped them: is to dress to impress. Flaunt your curves & just give a very uncaring impression. Please do not call him, honestly just learn to hate him now and that way it'll be WAyyyy easier for that wound to heal. You need to know that "relatioships are like broken glass. The more you keep putting it back together, the more your gonna hurt yourself"... I'm sorry about the friend thingy hun. I suggest u just order a new Bffl off of ebay. ;o)
... I can honestly tell you from experience that this is the BEST thing to do. if u act like you dont care it will spark their interest soO strongly that they will be begging for you back
2007-01-01 13:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your friend about how you feel. Tell her that it really hurts your feelings to see her flirting with your ex boyfriend so shortly after the relationship has ended.
Let her know that you value her friendship and that friends should always come first. Also, stand your ground and let her know that if she continues to behave this way, you will no longer tolerate it.
2007-01-01 13:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by GingerMoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well right off the hop she isn't Ur best friend that you should see, if she is ignoring you when you bring it up obviously she doesn't care about your feelings specially if you just broke up with him hopefully and i don't want to freak you out but maybe she is the reason you guys broke up. do you think they were having an affair together???? lets hope not but i would confront her about it and if she continues to ignore you maybe you should find yourself a NEW BEST FRIEND.
2007-01-01 13:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by jane_queen_of_jungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ignoring you when you try to talk, then she probably knows she shouldn't be doing it. You should just stay away from her for a while, or forever. She isnt a friend.
2007-01-01 13:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Str1pes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your real friend! Screw her, she'll get what she deserves. Let them both go you don't need that mess in your life, it should be easier for you to get over him now. Guys will come and go, and you when you are not expecting it you will find a new guy and friend.
2007-01-01 13:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by TT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any friend that isn't there for you in your "time of need" isn't a very good friend. (I'm not saying that you need her) She should be with you NOT HIM. Confront her about it and tell her exactly how you feel. If she still ignores you of doesn't change- Forget about her.
2007-01-01 13:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying to talk to her. If she doesn't listen, then it looks like you should try to find another friend. That is just mean if you ask me, but we are all human and make bad choices.
2007-01-01 13:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by C A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitly not a bff, that's definitly a backstabber right there. Get rid of them both.
2007-01-01 13:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her.
Forget her, and forget him.
You WILL find someone better, someone you deserve in life.
People like those two are everywhere in life, and being concerned about them will only tear you apart inside.
Be yourself, dress sexy and stylish, smile, and in no time someone will be drooling at your feet.....
2007-01-01 13:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beet the sh#t out of her no just be like were dating a gine and be like hes my get off or ill punch you in the face make her scared of you acked like your going to hit her and be like hes mine back off get a evile look on your face ok good luck
2007-01-01 13:26:39 · answer #11 · answered by gay boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋