Hi there, this New Years, I got a call from my girlfriend to hang out for the night...On the phone she sounded slightly anoyed about something..Well, when we met up, she was really quiet, and could not keep a conversation going. And the whole thing was, she did not at all like it when I touched her, and would often move away from me. Later on that night, she then just started to not say anything at all, and set me in a sour mood, and I still am now, is this common for PMS, or what?
2007-01-01 13:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by John J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, I did ask her what was the matter, in a nice way, but she would always say "Nothing" without making eye contact..
And her mood whent from giggly, to ultimatley sad, too being close to me, to wanted to stay away from me.
2007-01-01 13:30:42 · update #1
It could be PMS, but it actually sounds to me like she has something on her mind.
Treat her nicely, be sure you are neat and clean, if she seems to want to draw away a bit, let her. When she seems a little more relaxed, ask her if something is wrong, but don't push. Hopefully this will blow over or it can be resolved by discussion.
2007-01-01 13:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL... I would spend more time looking at your relationship and less time grappling to explain away obvious issues with something you know nothing about.
The best way to find out what was wrong with her is to ASK HER.
But don't be a jerk about it. Just politely say "I noticed you were quiet the other night, is there something bothering you"?
2007-01-01 21:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys always think it is PMS??? Did you ask her what was wrong? She probably wanted you to ask what was wrong and listen to her. Or maybe she thinks you did something (which maybe you did or maybe you didn't). Try to get her to open up and then just listen to her. If she has a problem, don't offer solutions (unless she asks) and just listen and be supportive.
2007-01-01 21:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by raindrop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be PMS, but if lasts more than 4 or 5 days, she's cheating on you.
2007-01-01 21:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be, or maybe she might not be in the mood for anything. Just give it a day or two, I am sure she will return to normal.
2007-01-01 21:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's common for pms, but maybe you did sumthing. her moods would have changed a little more if she was pmsing. like she'd dbe happy on min. and sad the next. but you should talk to her. if she was just pmsing she'll tell you that it's not u'r fault. pms doesn't feel good and many girls do that with their bf. but idk, others looks to their bf for comfort. depends on the mood swing.
2007-01-01 21:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be PMSing but maybe she heard something about you like cheating on her maybe and she wanted to tlk to you but she didn't. So go up to he and ask her whats wrong. If she doesn't wanna tell u maybe it is in he family or it is PMSing.
2007-01-01 21:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be pms, bi-polar, or disinterest. PMS is something that shouldn't be underestimated! Good luck with her!
2007-01-01 21:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from my own personal experience, its probably just pms. give her some space and a day or so and see how she is feeling....
2007-01-01 21:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kathleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be pms
you should just ask her what is wrong with her
2007-01-01 21:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋