My first husband passed on (died) when i was 25, I have one daughter to him.
After that I always belived i would stay single. Now im 33 and have met a lovely guy, Can i love again without the fear of ending up alone?
2007-01-01 13:04:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it was tragic that you lost your first husband at such a young age. But I don't think that he would want you to go through the rest of your life alone. It is natural to have feelings of guilt about finding another, but you and your daughter can love again without forgetting or stop loving your first husband. He will be a huge part of both of your hearts forever and as long as your new man understands this go for it. You can keep your first husband's memory alive - especially for your daughter, but you must move on with your life.
2007-01-01 13:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can love again. There will always be that fear of ending up alone but if the love you feel is strong then it will overpower that fear.
If you are falling in love again then there is nothing that you can do to stop it anyway. So allow it, enjoy it and smile that you have been fortunate enough to meet someone special again.
Your first husband will always be in your heart and the love that you clearly still hold for him will not be diminished by falling in love again, but a new love will find a new place in your heart and make you smile again.
Go for it you lucky girl!
2007-01-01 13:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is exclusive of fear. Death is inevitable, and I'm very sorry for your loss, but you have to trust that the time you spent with your first husband was wonderful and important and valuable. If you've met someone nice since his death, jump for joy! If you love this man, don't fear death. Death happens. It's the time we spend together during this brief span of life that changes us for the better. If this man makes you a better person than you would be alone, take it for what it is: a second chance.
We all die eventually. Hopefully, we die peacefully in advanced old age with our family around us. But we also hope for a life filled with love, respect, and gratitude. If you've found it twice, go find this man, kiss him, and fill your heart with gratitude and hope. Don't fear: love.
2007-01-01 13:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can. I believe that your first love was your soulmate, just up to a certain time in your life. You guys were meant to be, but God had other plans with him. And to fall in love again and meet another guy that you spend the rest of your life with, is another soulmate. I know that it sounds crazy, but if you think about it, it just means that you have a second chance at finding someone just as wonderful. The guy now can be the guy that you are suppose to spend forever with.
2007-01-01 13:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkinpie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, anything is possible in this world, you just have to be open when the opportunity comes. Pumpkin, just go with the flow and do not rock the boat with this guy. Be open about this relantionship that either might bring you love or not. If not, well there is another chance to go for it. Cupcakes, love comes best when you are never looking for it, it just shows up.
2007-01-01 13:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure, I do think of it somewhat is attainable to fall in love two times and that i do unquestionably have faith in love!! i don't think of there is basically one specific individual for all and sundry accessible. i'm head over heels in love with my hubby, i would not commerce him for the worldwide. yet he's a firefighter and being in a statistically risky proffesion as he's, it has made me think of (heaven forbid). . .What if something handed off to him? I even have 2 childrens and that i comprehend i could not improve them via myself. Plus if something did ensue and that i became nevertheless extremely youthful, i don't want to be on my own. I even have comprehend many people who've lost a larger half or signigicant different and characteristic been waiting to bypass on with existence and fall in love lower back. It would not inevitably mean they overlook approximately those they lost. they only proportion proportion the area of their heart. i comprehend that if something handed off to me, i could defenitely want my husband to remarry ultimately. no person would desire to would desire to stay this existence on my own.
2016-10-19 08:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do belief that one can find love twice. After all, don't you find different kinds of loves from both your mom and dad? They are both love, but in different ways. It's the same with romance love. Follow your heart, because you'll never know where love lies within next.
2007-01-01 13:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can love again. The fear thing is your choice though. You can dwell on that question or you can attempt to push it aside and move on... you'll feel better once you let go though.
2007-01-01 13:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by TalkingTomato 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is not a thing that can only happen once. And fear, well, never let that dictate your lifes choices. If love is out there, it is certainly worth enduring a little insecurity and fear.
2007-01-01 13:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by daddius42 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your past bit is 2 separate questions...you can love as many times in life as you meet men that you love...
will you fear ending up alone? *shrugs* only you can decide that...but why worry about it? we can be happy alone or with a partner...don't let there be a fear of being alone...simply enjoy whatever your path in life brings your way...
2007-01-01 13:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋