Should I get back with my ex boyfriend? I really do love him, but he is currently unemployed. I work full time and have 3 children to support. We broke up months ago because I was busting *** and he wasn't working. He promises to get it together, but I have to think of my children's stability too. HELP!!
2007-01-01 13:01:58 · 10 answers · asked by gogirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have it right by putting you children first. but because he doesnt have a job doesn't mean that you needed to leave him. i mean was he expecting to live off of you. surviving through hard times makes relationships stronger. give him the moral and emontional support that he needs to help him stay up during this hard time. once he lands a job and he isn't pissed about you dropping him when he was down the get back together.
2007-01-01 13:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's take a look at this...you broke up because you were working hard, and he was unemployed....you are asking if you should get back together but state that he is currently unemployed...
How is this different from when you broke up months ago?
I'm sure you can figure this one out yourself...why'd you waste your own points posting it?
2007-01-01 13:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not come back to him,never.God will give you in 2007,a man who will work hard,and will love you indeed and he will love your children too.Wait,do not rush,wait.Do not do something you will regret all your future life.You have a better future for you and your children.Listen good: do not come back to him.God already have a good man going in your way.God bless you every day in 2007,and protect you and your children of bad men.You need a man, who protect and support you and your children.Think good,logic and well.Think in your future and the future of your children.
2007-01-01 13:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind, deaf and has no sense of smell. But Responsibility is judgmental and carries a ledger. If you have three children to think about, they come first, always. If your XBF promises to get it together, let him do it, prove it, and only then consider getting back together with him.
2007-01-01 13:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women can live WITHOUT a man. Even if you really love him, and he's a real bum I think you'd be a lot better off without him . For now, do what you need for your kids first and give him a little time away from you again, then if he still needs you, he'll sure get his act together
2007-01-01 13:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he gets it together;
he sounds nice and willing, but you don't want to end up in the same situation as you were, when you left him.
Just be careful, and let him know that you will get back together with him, as long as he can settle down.
Good Luck!
2007-01-01 13:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that you should get back with him until after he gets his act together.
2007-01-01 13:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jfranc1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a four letter word,like lust,f..k,root,etc.
Think of your children and whats best for them not for you?
2007-01-01 13:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by BUSHIDO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him..and think that he will get his act together...then it is worth trying!!!
2007-01-01 13:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from Losers !!!
2007-01-01 13:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋