a freind of mine says its rare, but not unheard of. here is how it came up.
i've been dating a girl for three months or so, and she was a big partier. she still goes out about every other week with her college freinds - sometimes to movies and stuff, but sometimes to a club. a fraind asked me if she carries and a condom, and i was like, for what? and she said, just in case?
i was offended and said in case of what?!?!?!? she says she's not hooking up with anyone else and i trust her.
but she and another freind of mine agreed, when a girl goes out - and she's drinking - and she bumps into one of those guys with serious game . . . . its better to be prepared in case he isn't, so she won't be bringing anything extra back to me - like hiv. in fact, my one freind ahs been with a guy for three years and said she wouldn't go for such a guy now, but when she was with him less than six months . . . . who knows?
so i'm like dang - maybe she should be carrying a rubber. what do you think?
2007-01-01 12:55:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yes I think she should have a condom just in case. She's young and out partying. You just never know. I'm sure you trust her but young kids dont think sometimes. Especially after drinking a few to many.
2007-01-05 04:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats so cute!!! hmmm well it seems like you care for her a lot. think of some things though---did you know/like her before she was so popular? would you still like her if a bunch of guys weren't after her or is it just kind of you wanting to be the big guy that gets the girl. im not accusing you of anything i swear i just think that they will affect the situation. welll i'd say that if she knows you like her and hasn't done anything, she is either waiting for you to ask her out or she doesnt think of you like that, but if youre close enough you'll just go back to bein friends. i think you should casually ask her to go to a movie, and then look for these signs---is she excited? did she get dressed up to go? is she laughing at all your jokes and leaning toward you when you walk, smile, touch your arm, etc? if so---at the movie, put your arm around her, if things are really going well kiss her. but you really have to be observant. and don't do it all at once, itll freak her out. if she seems uncomfortable, just back off and be cool and act like her friend. you really have to watch for these signs though. you sound like a really considerate guy and she'd be lucky to have you. if you do start going out with her, treat her like she's the only girl on the earth for you. treat her like a princess. don't get stalkery though. she has a lot of guys after her so she might get distracted, but don't be all jealous and over-bearing about it and just trust her. if she hurts you, let her go. sorry this is long haha hope it helps. good luck!!
2016-05-23 04:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so... aren't you jealous or something?.
She has no self control or what??? Ok she's gonna be drinking and stuff but if she can remember the condom in her purse why can't she remember she's dating someone else!!!!!. Maybe you should think about getting another girlfriend, I don't think that's healthy at all. You are quite good looking, have some pride!!!!.
2007-01-01 13:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow follow her and make sure she puts her Nuva ring or The old days Diaphragm.*** on be serious ,are you trying to say every time a girl or woman goes out without her man shes will probably cheat?
I don't care you passed out stupid ,black out drunk if your intentions before where not to cheat ,you are not gonna cheat.
myself give me Rum and coke ,i feel sexy ,and love to dance on top of tables ,been know to strip of you pieces of clothes ,But i never never wanted anyone ,until i got home and raped my man .
I know my place fun is fun ,but you talking about bringing S.H.I.T. home to you .
So maybe you don't know each other as much you think ,and to me that's your biggest risk ,man you talking about your life.
2007-01-01 13:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are wrong. any girl would would go out with her friends and end up in bed with a guy who has "game" is a whore anyway. there has never been a man in history that has had enough "game" to get me to stray, especially if he's a stranger in a club.
2007-01-01 13:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better Safe than Sorry!
2007-01-01 13:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rembrandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even the most 'do-able' people carry nasty STDs... STDs don't discriminate....
You are responsible for your own well-being... yes, you should carry a condom.
2007-01-01 13:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its a good idea im with u u need to trust her fully or not @ all
2007-01-01 13:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by plzbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is sillly. If she is that kinda girl... if her friends think she is that kind of girl... maybe she is not as serious as you are
2007-01-01 12:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with her.
2007-01-01 12:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋