ok I'm friends with this guy and I am attracted to him. I usually initate meeting up and he agrees, he calls me infrequently. I casually mentioned that I'm thinking about going to Asia on holiday and he said I would be interested in that, so I sent him details and we have now booked up.
He has just come out of a very long relationship and been split 6 months.
How can I tell if he is atrracted to me too? Or if he just wants to be friends?
2007-01-01 12:51:28 · 17 answers · asked by farleyjackmaster 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has just come out of a long relationship he is probably a little wary and is taking his time. However, taking the decision to go on holiday with you is a very positive sign. You can now take your time and not rush him as you will definitely find out his feelings while you are on holiday. Have a great time.
2007-01-01 13:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he were interested he would initiate the contact sometimes. he would also call you frequently. this trip to asia? who is paying the way? if you are paying....he's probably just using you to go somewhere he's not been before. if you are splitting the cost, he could want to spend this time with you or maybe he just wanted to have a buddy to see the sights with. its all in how he acts while you are together. does he flirt? take your hand as you are walking ? put an arm around you while watching a movie? i think if he only wanted in your panties, he would have tried for it by now and you wouldn't be asking this question.
take it slow on your trip and see what happens. have a good trip!
2007-01-01 21:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds keen. I'd suggest you talk and decide where everything is heading. Not too heavy or you will scare him off, thats if you like him too. You dont want to ruin and waste a perfectly good holiday.
2007-01-02 05:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by RACHEL FEV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation. We were "friends" for about 2 years. I liked him and asked him one day what I meant to him....he considered me a friend. Ouch! I've always heard if a guy is really into you he won't hesitate to do what he can to spend time with you. If this doesn't work out don't put more any more energy into it. There's someone out there who will jump at any chance to be with you. Hope this helps! Good luck!
2007-01-01 20:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wants to spend time with you, especially on a trip to a foreign country he must still be attracted to you. At the very least, it will not be a complete end to a friendship.
2007-01-01 20:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by BigAl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is how you can tell if ur guy friend is into u
1. he does time consuming and/or difficult favors 4 u
2. he lets you know it's never too late to talk
3. he tries 2 get in good with ur friends
4. he never seems to like any guy u like
5. he shows his vulnerable side.
alycat
2007-01-01 20:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by alycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to be very conscious.... cos he is been jus out of a relationship, which means that he is lookin for something to fill in the gap.... sort out ur feelings also tread very carefully before doin nething....cos guys r dogs... they do not have sensitive heart.... do not attach urself mentally wid this guy otherwise u will feel bad n keep ur options open.....
2007-01-01 23:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rachna S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. Find out what his thoughts are. No one here is going to know this guy and be able to tell you if he likes you more than just friends. Communication is the best solution.
2007-01-01 20:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
Sort it out before you go though, otherwise he might dismiss it as a holiday romance. Also, if your advances don't work it might spoilt your holiday.
Just attack him with your tonsils next time you see him and take it from there.
2007-01-01 20:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes but the easy way to know exactly how much is to ask him
do it the scardy way if you have to, text messgee saying to scraed to ask in voice, do you etc etc etc
be plain and precise
tell him it wont affect your decisions (so lie ;)
2007-01-01 23:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋