My b/f have been going out for..about 7 weeks
and we've go through 2 fights. 1. was because he said he liked someone ....to that person...I found out on my own. the 2nd was because I heard he was like holding hands and acting like he like another girl. both times I gave him a chance and didn't dump him. NOW I heard he is send messeges to 3 or 4 other girls saying "hey hony" or "sup babe?" and stuff like that. My sister found out and told me. But she said he could just be joking around with them because he's dumb. but..idk what to do. Think about this and tell me what you think I should do.
P.S.
dont say I dont know or dump him. Give me a reason why.
2007-01-01 12:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like the way you are being treated by him then stay. To me in only 7 weeks that you have been dating him and you have found out he is coming on to other girls, well hum? that should be obvious pretty of a warning with a red red flag in front of you waving caution that he can't be trusted........It isn't hard to figure out use your gut instinct not your heart.
2007-01-01 13:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. 7 weeks isn't much time to really get attached to someone and if there is a conflict now at 7 weeks there will be one in 7 months, 7 years, and on and on. If he has this attitude now, who knows.. It isn't something to be really joking around. Judging from his attitude I am going to say you guys are in high school or so. If he is older than that I definetely would dump him. If you are just in high school then i would not be very serious with him just friends and let him openly date people and you do the same and if the two of you can stay friends maybe it'll work out in the future, but not with that kind of attitude.
2007-01-01 20:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Reasons?
Once a cheat. Can change.
Twice a cheat. Always a cheat.
and he's cheated on you girl.
Flirting is ok. Telling someone else you like them is ok if you make it clear that you are not going to cheat on your current gf. (sometimes the heart can fall for two or more people but needs to choose only one.) holding hands and saying you like someone goes a little too far over the line and sending messages, weelllllll
he sounds to me like he hasn't learned the difference between acceptable flirting and going too far.
He will break your heart.
Dump him.
2007-01-01 20:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him to find out what really is going on. you will never know if the two of you don't communicate with each other. ask him what type of relationship does he consider the two of you to be in and does he want to see or is he seeing other people. once you sit down and talk then you can decide from there what it is that you want to do. one more thing, be very careful with the he said she said stuff. i know that is you sister but family will stab you in the back just as fast as a stranger would. i learned that from experience.
2007-01-01 20:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump him. He has already done it before. or ask him maybe he has a good reason for doing it? if he doesn't then tell him you should just be friends because he may end up cheating on you from the looks of things
2007-01-01 20:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by kickfliper7894 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS ALREADY A REASON FOR U TO DUMP HIM!! I KNOW I WOULD NEVER LET MY MAN DO THAT!!! HOLDING HANDS WITH A NOTHER GIRL IS NOT EXCEPTABLE AND I WOULDNT GO FOR THET!!! BUT IF U REALLY LIKE HIM TELL HIM THAT NO MORE OF THAT OR ELSE UR THROUGH!! IF HE REALLY LIKES U HE'LL STOP DOING STUFF TO HURT U EVEN IF HE IS JUST MESSING AROUND!!!!
WELL GOOD LUCK!!! I HOPE U HANDLE IT!!
2007-01-01 21:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by mcdonalds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are willing to tolerate. I personally don't want to be with a guy who isn't being loyal to me and me only so I would not continue the relationship. My opinion is that this guy is a player and you're only going to get your heart broken down the road as you get more and more attached to him.
2007-01-01 20:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know. 7 weeks, 2 fights and multiple tries at getting another honey. You can do better.
2007-01-01 20:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have a reason; what more do you need? Time to grow up and face reality; he's a player, and you're being played!
2007-01-01 20:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he's not going to change no matter how many chances you give him you will keep fighting with him and he will keep playing games dump him and move on.
2007-01-01 20:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by W2D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋