How do you get a guy that already has a girl?

Question

There is this boy that I like but he isn't free. What should I do!!!

Answer 1

*** leave him be.

Answer 2

This question is asked at least 10 times a day on this forum, and I cannot understand, for the life of me, why the people asking have no sense of propriety.
He's evidently happy with his situation, so leave them alone. Go find someone who's available. It's just that easy, and it's the right thing to do. Quit being covetous of another person's boyfriend.
Is this the way you'll look at someone else's husband in a few years??

Answer 3

If you like a guy that already has a girlfriend the best thing is to leave him alone. Because tell you the truth a lot of guys don't like it when you interupt with the relationship they have with someone. You as the crusher are able to let him know at least on how you feel about him. But most of all just be a friend with him. Because one day he might be yours but take it easy and don't interfair with them.

Answer 4

Hmmmm....I don't know what to say. I'm in the same position as you. I really like him and he already has a girl. I know, you probably aren't going to just move on and forget. Forgetting is very hard. Well, eventually...hopefully....they'll break up. A week or two after they break up, flirt with him. Ask him if he's ok because of the break up. Be nice to him and he might think that you would be a good girlfriend. But, for now be patient. Good things don't happen right away, they take time.

Answer 5

I know it's hard to let go of someone you like. But if you really were meant to be and worth splitting him and his girlfriend up, who could have a perfectly good relationship together. Don't you think he would have dumped her? You need to try and find out if he feels the same way without hurting her or him, or maybe stay friends until they split and hang on, or try and get your mind off of him by getting a pet! I suggest a cat, they're friendly and comforting. If it's not possible to get a cat or a dog, get a new man!

Hope this helps x

Answer 6

Well, you will get him,,,, just follow this :)

Understand that appearance is most certainly not everything. There are, of course, some guys who feel that appearance outweighs personality in a relationship, but that is not true for all guys. Keep your appearance the way it normally is unless you are already dating and dressing up for an occasion, because if you are not desired for who you truly are, then why be involved in a relationship in which you portray yourself as something you are not?
Recognize that there is no actual way to "get a guy to like you", because the feelings invoked inside a guy about you are very subtle, and are normally set off from something you have done without knowing it. For example, some guys like a girl because she is humourous. If the girl knows this, and tries harder to be even more humourous than she already is, then she might end up, in effect, turn off the guy. Basically, don't change yourself just for a guy, because there are millions of them out there. If one doesn't like you, what's the real loss?
Spend more time getting to know the guy and having fun with him. Then it matters less how you dress. Clothing is a very controversial issue to guys, because they're divided. There is one group of guys who feel that the girl should wear whatever she feels comfortable in, because that confidence (in herself) alone is sexy. However, there is another group of guys who feel that the girl should wear clothing that shows off her body. If the guy is more relaxed and quiet, then he will typically want you to be comfortable (i.e. group #1), but if he is a jock and pretty loud, then he will typically want you to dress to show off yourself (i.e. group #2). Remember, good things come with time, not just by wearing tight clothes.
Beware the "thin" trap. Do not pull yourself into the group of people that starve themselves to look thin, because there are more attractive things than the way your rear end looks from down the hallway.
Talk to the guy, not everyone else. Relationships in school (or even in an office situation) can be very dramatic. Girls get with their friends and talk about how cute a guy is that sits next to her. Guys get with their friends and talk about the qualities a girl has that he likes, or simply how she is sexy, cute, or merely attractive. Getting to the point, you need to make your feelings clear to the other person, and not just to your little clique. Sometimes people feel it is easier to write a note expressing your feelings for the other person, but walking up to them and stating how you feel about them shows your confidence, and confidence is attractive to either party involved. It shows that your feelings aren't fake, and that you have the courage to get over your butterflies and move forward to see what may happen.
Be yourself. It's plain and simple. There is no need to take on the image of someone else just for a guy to like you.

Answer 7

You don't, becuase you're a bitc h if you try. There are many colorful expressions I can use. What, is it a case of the "I want what I can't have" or "I don't like her but so I want her man"? If you are "that" girl, other people won't like you or want to be your friend other than shallow backstabbers w/o any integrity (not unlike yourself IF you do this). I've been there, but I used my head.

Single + single = good

Answer 8

Sweetheart, why are giving gifts to someone with another girl. Pumpkin, don't you know he and her girl will take it the wrong way. Either he sees it as a green signal to F** you or his girl will see this as a come on to her man. Pumpkin, save any more drama and skip the gift.

Answer 9

do nothing in till his free. b/c it would be mean to break up them. plus you will get a really mean reputation (no offense) if you do. or just find a new guy to like. like the saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Answer 10

a girl who trys to steal another girls guy has no self respect why would you want what someone already has. would you want him to leave you for another piece of ***.
i would find someone who is single
because to be honest if a girl tried to get near my man knowing he is with me i would beat her *** or let her have him then give her a list of the crap i do around the house

Answer 11

Leave him alone! He is off limits unless he seems interested and takes the steps to actualy dump the girl he is with. Put yourself in his girls shoes. You wouldn't want some girl to step in and ruin what you have together.