ok heres whats goin on ok theres this boy named tanner ok here is wat you need 2 focuse on kk
my heart says go for it tell him how you feel if hes your real friends he will understand ok
my mind says youll be sorry just think the humiliation the laughfter and the sadness everyone will laugh at you
ok i want to tell him i like him but hes no the brightess pumpkin in the field lol
like one time i tryed to tell himby givin him hints saying on this note i wrote hima nd it said i want to tell you something but it might ruin our friendship and it may cost us alot of stuff so i wont tell you for now and later that week he said he dont like me like that YET and now his cousin and brother and sister say thats all he talks about is how sweet and how everything about me ok but my mind may be true cause theres these boyz who keep on making fun of us and if we do go out then it might be even more inbarrising so which one should i follow
my HEART or MIND?
2007-01-01 12:34:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your mind.
Everytime I follow my (sexual organ) it ends up breaking my heart and messing up my mind.
Mind first
Sexual organ second
Heart third
Better that way.
2007-01-01 12:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Harry Merkin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say follow your heart have a talk with him see if he does feel the same way. If he don't like you in that way don't be let down because you all will always have a friendship that he may not want to mess up and sometimes dating friends will mess it up if things happen. So there is a plus side to it either way. Who cares if people make fun of you all. I mean look if it makes you both happy forget about what everyone else thinks about it they are not involved with the person. You are.
2007-01-01 12:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by ho0k4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following your heart throughout life will always bring you happiness and fulfillment. Following your mind may or may not bring you success.
I followed my mind when I graduated high school and went to college for computer science. I made $60k right when I got out. But I was miserable.
I went back, got degrees in English Literature, and not I make half what I made before, but I am happy. That makes all the difference in the world.
Screw what everyone else thinks.
2007-01-01 12:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Your Favorite Writer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about it the right way then heart and mind will agree. Just keep in mind that this is between the two of you only, being embarrassed shouldn't play a major role in your decision-making.
2007-01-01 12:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by charlie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see I have a theory about mind and heart. The mind only think of what's best for our dignity while the heart only thinks what's best to satisfy our needs. But only by satusfying our needs that we MAY find happiness so I suggesst follow your heart.
2007-01-01 12:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by meOW! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your heart and not care what other people think i went out with someone who wasnt the most popular person in the world and when other people found out they were really happy for me give it a try
2007-01-01 12:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by chauntel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask Tanner ........start by saying, "I heard you were talking about me...........are you open for dates now-------(say this in a flirtatious manner)pay attention to his reaction. This will tell you if the " not yet" is never. I don't know but the " i don't like you like that yet" would make me hesitate to even fool with him. You either like someone like that or you don't. Nobody wants to be seconds.
2007-01-01 12:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe mind is the heart... Use your head, sober ealism is always more prudent than emotional fog, the fog may be comfortable when it arrives, but it causes accidents, and ruins lives...
2007-01-01 12:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always use your heart, but in the end you mind is what's going to get you out of trouble.
2007-01-01 12:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is the best way to do it!!!Your mind has negative,and positive thoughts,however your heart denies no thing.Your heart is the most compassionate part of your body.your mind has the thoughts of others,your heart is the truth.Follow your heart!!!
2007-01-01 12:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Vonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:15:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋