The band members were very taken with me ( I was talking and joking with them all btwn sets)..I was having a good time and enjoying the music and dancing and the bass guitar player was making eye contact with me during their set...after the set ..he brought over thier CD and put his card in it and asked me to email him and tell him how I liked the music..he talked to me for awhile...all the time my new bf of only 2 weeks was next to me...of course new bf & I donot have any commitment yet...the guitar player was very nervous talking to me, but I thought it was rather ballsy (is that a word?) of him to be so forward in front of new bf. There were many other maybe more attractive and younger women than myself..but new bf says its my energy that is attractive. I took the CD when we left .. needless to say a little jealousy reared its ugly head...did I act inappropiately. Guitar guy let me know also, when and where his next gig is... Whats up with this ?
2007-01-01 12:20:54 · 10 answers · asked by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your new bf was secure enough to sit through all that, then he is the ballsy one. Stick with him. It wasn't cool for another man to have the indecency to come onto you in front of him. It might have been flattering, but not cool.
2007-01-01 12:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask yourself this question, is it worth it to risk it by meeting this guitar player? Or continue on with your new BF. You say there is no committment but the way you wrote this, you too are dating for 2 weeks so there is some kind of committment there.
The way I see it, you are not married so you are preiliged to taste every water as possible until you know you want to settle down.
2007-01-01 12:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guitar guy was taken by you, but be careful, he could be a player in the making. It was very rude of him to do that in front of your bf, and he obviously didn't care.
Who do you like better? Do you really like your bf? Is there a possible future with him? If so, chose him. But if the temptation is too strong, call guitar guy.
HAVE FUN!
2007-01-01 12:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by StephanieM. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the guitar player liked you and was interested in seeing you again. It was nice of him to give you his number, instead of putting pressure on you to give him yours. I think that if you do not have a serious committment with your new boyfriend already, then it is typically OK to see/date more than one person, as long as you are not too involved with either one. That is just a general trend though. You should do what you really feel in your heart, for YOU. If it was me, I would evaluate which one I liked more, was I more attracted to.
2007-01-01 12:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nelly Wetmore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband is in a band and I can tell you that they try very hard to get people to attend their gigs. They try to get everone in the audience to provide phone number, email addresses, etc. It may have been nothing more than the band trying to drum up more fans.
2007-01-01 12:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to honestly know the truth? You were rude to your boyfriend. You showed no respect to him by flirting with another guy. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you have felt if he ignored you while flirting with another girl?
2007-01-01 12:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sometimes guys think girls are more attractive wen they are taken....so u never know....but that was kinda wrong...u were flirting right in front of your NEW bf!!!
2007-01-01 12:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh stop bragging
2007-01-01 12:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by GROOVY LILY 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He liked you
2007-01-01 12:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what
2007-01-01 12:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by *monkey girl* 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋