Well...I'm 10 and my sis is 7. She was sitting at the worst place she could sit, right where the car hit. I was in the car and i just got a cut in my finger. I feel really bad now because we were fighting of who was sitting where and she hapened to sit there. She is got her casts on already and she can't do anything in her wheelchair. It takes her forever to move it, and she was really active and she played 4 sports, and now she can't do any. I need to encourage her that this will be over and I think she is mad at me because I was about to sit in her spot but I didn't! Is it my fault because I made her sit there?
2007-01-01 12:19:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This guy went out to help someone in a car crash and HE got hit by 2 cars. he has been in a coma since sept 15
2007-01-01 14:25:54 · update #1
This guy went out to help someone in a car crash and HE got hit by 2 cars. he has been in a coma since sept 15
2007-01-01 14:26:02 · update #2
sorry for repeating it. my comp. did that
2007-01-01 14:26:38 · update #3
no it's not ur fault it's the fault of the person who hit ur sister!!! but you should make your sis. feel better like you should entertain her by making her laugh and watching movies making her food making her a cold drink!!!!! WELL I'M REALLY SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED TO UR SIS. SEND MY APOLOGIES TO THE WHOLE FAMILY! I HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT GREAT AND I KNOW IT WILL!!!!! BYE!!!
2007-01-01 12:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by LiL Ms Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not your fault your sister got hit. You had no idea that you would be in a car accident. If you think she's mad at you, then maybe you could help her with her wheelchair around the house, encourage her, offer to do things with her (like playing games)and stuff like that. If anything, this could be a chance for you to become better friends with your sister. I hope she heals soon.
2007-01-01 20:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by e-kay? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello dear my sister had a car accident two years ago and she will never be able to walk ever again, I was not in the accident but of course she change even with me she was angry at the all world and it was sad for me to see her like that she is very beautifully, I used to cry everyday , now two years after she have accept her situation times cure everything think that for your sister is so hard what she is going trought, of course is not your fault, at all give it time and you can tell her how you feel even is she is so young she will understand sorry about my English I am Spanish
2007-01-01 21:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by ingridgott 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not your fault and it's important you get that out of your head, EVEN IF she says something out of anger to you that it was. It would just be out of anger. I'm sorry for you and especially your sister. Be nice to her (but not overly nice, lol) and help her through this over the next months.
2007-01-01 20:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your sister!
It isn't your fault. NO WAY!
But if you help your sister out by doing nice things for her, I think it will actually help the both of you feel better about what happened.
2007-01-01 20:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accidents happen, sweety so it's not your fault or hers. Just try to be there for her, don't cry or feel guilty because it might make her feel bad. She'll be ok in time. I broke my leg and my shoulder also and I'm ok now.
2007-01-01 20:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't your fault, it is the fault of who ever caused the accident. Avoid the emotional blackmail and quilt trips.
2007-01-01 20:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety it definately is NOT your fault!!! you didn't do anything wrong. what happens to people we love is not up to us, God says what happens to us and when bad things happen its not because he is being mean or he doesn't like us , its because he wants us to trust him that he will make it better for us. he wants you to trust that he will make your sisters legs better and and wants you to know that you are loved and you both will be ok!!! just keep your sister in good spirits and try to make her comfortable when you can!!
2007-01-01 20:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thankful that nothing worse happened to her. my dad's girlfriend got in a car accident and displaced her hip and couldn't walk for awhile, but i got through it. you just got to look at the postive aspects and think that she is going to get through it.
2007-01-01 20:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by michelle k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't worry about it, kiddo. just be grateful that she isn't hurt more than she is, or even dead. she is a lucky girl. don't take it out on yourself. and remember-things will eventually get better-it just takes time! i assure you everything will turn out just fine!
2007-01-01 20:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by emt2beme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋