He was my bestfreind, then after we started dating and fell inlove all my faults came out. I know they are needy, and i try and meet half way with Him. He is also on the verge to abusing me. He has hit me once, pushed me around, and called me some pretty mean things. But i love Him so much. i really dont know what to do. Should we call it quits or keep trying?
2007-01-01 12:10:33 · 12 answers · asked by imavictimofwords 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hits you once, walk!!!! Take my advice. It will happen again and I think you know that. Get out of it now because it will only get worse, more often and harder for you and him. You have to show him that he is WRONG.
2007-01-01 12:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get into couples therapy, however, if he is abusing you then you may want to consider getting out now while you can and you are not physically beaten, making you afraid to do otherwise. If it was not for the physicality of this situation, I would say to reconnect and spend time together doing fun things or out of the ordinary things. Think what is best for you and the rest will follow, sounds like you have the solution but you're hesitant- you deserve the best. good luck
2007-01-01 12:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the police, a couple of nights in jail... he'll get the hint.
Or you can do like Ma'Dear did on Tyler Perry's "Ma'Dear's Family Reunion"
(Serena and Venus) Throw hot oatmeal on him and side swipe his head with an iron skillet!
2007-01-01 12:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him or get him some serious counseling cause it startswith yelling then pushing then hitting next thing your in the hospital or have a miscarriage that he causes THINK ABOUT IT he abuses u then your kids if they make it that far
2007-01-01 12:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Despite any of your "faults", it is no excuse for violence or abusive behavior.
Love YOURSELF enough to get away from the situation, if he values you he will get some help and perspective and treat you with more care and respect.
2007-01-01 12:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stay with him. i was in love with someone and they abused me. after i left them i found some one better. Alot of people die because love. Don't let 1 of them be u
2007-01-01 12:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the reason he hit you? Did he feel regret afterward? if you feel that you love him stil and he worth you to do stay for him...then i think why not give both a chance? but only if he still has feeling for you...else i think you should just give up...
2007-01-01 12:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by S.Eras 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call it quits! Once he hit you, it was all over!
2007-01-01 12:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him far far behind. Get a restraining order if needed
2007-01-01 12:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hit you?!?!?
No question...leave now! Give him a good swift kick where it counts before you go though!
2007-01-01 12:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Da Phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋