my daughter is 15 and her boyfriend is also 15
they have been dating for alittle longer then 3 months
i have talked to my daughter about saving herself and she agrees
2007-01-01 11:56:11 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You're the parent....so PARENT......You are not her friend, and you must think of consequences she may not.
Be an adult and not an idiot who stands by while the kids do whatever they want.
2007-01-01 11:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by ☺ . CIEL . ☺ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your daughter. If you think she's truthful and that she really does want to save herself then you should let her go, so she can live a little and make decisions on her own. But if shes not trustworthy and she doesn't seem like the type to save herself, then don't let her go, which would be best for her. You can only decide this, since you've known your daughter for 15 years and know what kind of person she is. But, in my opinion, don't be too overprotective all the time. Shes growing up and she needs the room to do so.
2007-01-01 12:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 15, i was not allowed to go over to boyfriends houses without an adult. Is it going to be during the day? what will they be doing? Is there somewhere else they can go? The truth is, sadly, if kids are going to do something they will probably do it. I say it's up to you. If it's just a couple of hours, during the day and you can check in with daughter or vise versa, you need to decide. Are the boys parents ok with this get together? Thats a tough one. Good luck to ya!
2007-01-01 12:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's nice to hear that you've at least had the conversation. The unfortunate thing is that you will not be able to stop her from doing what she really wants to do, that's just how teens are. You can tell her you would rather not have her over there, and explain why, and see if you can come to an agreement. That would be the best bet in my opinion, because if you tell her absolutely no then she will just think about rebelling and lying, but if you say okay sure then she may not make good choices. If you have a good relationship with her and you value that relationship, the best advice I can give you is to trust her and let her know you trust her, but to give her your feelings and encourage her to remain open about hers.
2007-01-01 12:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lowa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is something you need to decide on. I know that when I was 15 I never would have dreamed of asking my parents this because I knew the answer would be no. Instead I asked my boyfriend to come over. If they really want to see eachother they should be able to deal with the fact that there is an adult somewhere in the house.
2007-01-01 12:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure she agrees-I did too but I still lost my cherry at 15, got PG at 16 even while on the pill, lost the baby, guy left me. Then at 19 pg again on the pill, lost baby and guy left me. Then 20-pg on the pill, kept baby(6 now) lost the man after he beat me up a few times and stoped taking the pill. What I am saying is that be careful-she may say one thing so that you will hear what you want to and not question her or her actions. Have you talked to the boyfriends parents?
2007-01-01 12:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do ?
Call your local police department and ask them what the protocol is on this .....
The question you should ask yourself 1st is , are the Police "them " or are the Police " Us "
If you answred " Us " you answered correctly.
Funny thing , Police are also parents ....but more importantly the local Police department are there to help you and I can promise you there is no reason not to call ....you certainly don't need to discuss this with your daughter ....but you will get an earful on this subject from peaople that really can answer your question properly.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 12:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Papillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I don't know you, you're daughter, or her boyfriend. But I know that teenagers will say one thing and do another. If you are against her going to her boyfriends house, then stick to your rules. It's your rules, she's your daughter, and she has to live with those rules while she is living under your roof. But if you are concerned she wants to start having sex, get her on birth control. If she's going to do it at least she will be protected from pregnancy. Hope this helps.
2007-01-01 12:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if they want to have sex, they're going to find a way. But I still wouldn't let them be unsupervised like that, too easy for something to happen, even with the best of intentions. Try to keep open communication between you and your daughter, so she can talk with you and you can trust her!
2007-01-01 14:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by tbabygir1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I remember what 15 year old boys have on their minds. And these days, most 15 year old girls have it on their minds too. I am sure that your daughter is a sweet girl but I would not want to put her into any position that might cause her to have to make a decision that she is not old enough to make on her own.
I hope this helps.
2007-01-01 12:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Colette B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if her intentions are good, peer pressure is very effective. Once she is alone with her boyfriend, he may say, "If you love me, you'll do this for me..." or "All the other girls are doing it." Depends on how well you know the guy yourself, really. Remember, he may not be a bad guy, but he is at the peak of his hormone activity at that age and may have a lack of mature judgment. Same with her.
2007-01-01 12:00:08 · answer #11 · answered by Joe D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋