on the first date is that moving too fast?
2007-01-01 11:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends. If you complained that you have pain, then no. I am a masseuse, so when a guy complains that something is hurting him (even on a first date), I would offer him a massage. But I will certainly let him know that the massage is all he's getting.
It is a small possibility that he wants to give you a little preview of what are you going to get if you continue with your relationship.
But, if he just wants to get some by luring you with a tempting offer like massage, then Yes, it is moving too fast.
2007-01-01 11:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is way too fast!!! If you guys were married I'd say go for it! Or engaged or out of high school, but never ever on the first date. That most likely means the guy wants to get in your pants! If he wants to do that so soon then lose him before you lose your pants.
2007-01-01 19:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends sometimes. but i think the farthest a first date should go is a kiss atleast a kiss on the cheek. i mean if you dont want to move too fast
2007-01-01 19:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure.
If you've just met anyone and they want to massage you it's too fast.
Unless you are in a massage parlor of course.
2007-01-01 19:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
90% of the the time massages lead to sex for me
2007-01-01 19:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where he wants to massage!
2007-01-01 19:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if u don't want to have the possibility of sex on your date.
2007-01-01 19:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can be the judge of that, ask yourself "am i comfotable with this?" if you even have to think about it then you are going to fast. follow YOUR heart. never ever let anyone pressure you into anything, you will regret it for the rest of your life
2007-01-01 19:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by candi b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants it to lead into sex....so therefore yes, it is fast!
2007-01-01 19:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe...it is considered a sexual move..but remember you are the one with the puccy
2007-01-01 19:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Silent white cloud 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋