See, my BF of just over one month has a myspace, so I went on his page and saw he had a new friend...a girl. Wearing skimpy clothes. She left him a comment and I read it...it said something like, "Lol, yea, and thnx for being so forgiving," it was a lil longer, but I dont remember it well...SO, I went to her page ((The guy has cheated on me b4 ppl, I swear Im not juss paranoid)) and on there it said that she was a stripper and all this junk on there like that...so, now Im freaking out, BC I love this guy so so much...and I dont wanna think that everythings gonna happen again...what do I do....and am I overreacting??
2007-01-01 11:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Person calm down. No I don't think you're overracting and I think you have a right to be worried. Maybe maybe you should try talking Ti- I mean this "guy best friend" I think that if he can't tell you about this girl in a open conversation then you need to take action. Just try to talk to him about it and see where it takes you!!
2007-01-02 09:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be very hard for you. I feel very sorry. I think you should talk it over with him. Tell him. I know how it feels, but not exactly. I love someone who doesn't even know me. (I swear Im not overaxegerating!! she really doesn't remember who I am. ) I think you should break up w/ him. He may not be the right one for you. It's hard(****, I'm just repeating myself, aren't I?) You should find someone else, forget about him. I can't-- or really shouldn't be saying that, now should I? You may not feel to break up with him at all, but one way or another, you will be hurt. If you stay with him, you'll just be hurt more. What do you think would be better, him cheating behind your back or you and him not being together? I bet someone out there loves you also, but you don't even know it. That person may want you and might even be better than the prick your with right now, so I think you should leave him. But thats just me, you probably wouldnt want to
2007-01-01 11:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by we'll go so far 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SInce you are already snooping around his business it's plain to see that you do not trust this guy.
You have only been together for ONE MONTH and he has cheated already. Why on earth would you want this guy? If he can't keep it in his pants for a month, what chance does he have of controlling himself for a year? 5? 10?
Find youself a decent guy...
2007-01-01 11:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, be true to yourself. If he has cheated before, and he is even close to cheating now, end it. You may just be trying to convince yourself that you love him. If he's one of few bf's in your life, maybe are you just afraid that you wont be able to find anyone else if you break up with him? Try and find out if he's really cheating, etc. Ask him about things. Check it out, but if you believe that he's up to no good, end it. You WILL find someone else. Good luck!
2007-01-01 11:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Advice Giver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are overreacting. You should just calmly ask him about her. Look carefully at how he reacts and you can make a better judgment from that. If there is stuff going on then its better for you to know. Then you can decide whether he is worth it if he treats you like this.
2007-01-01 11:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him but with no drama, write down what you need to say and keep it cool, but if you cannot trust him anymore dating him is going to be painful, trust is a crucial part of having a good relationship.
Best of luck
2007-01-01 11:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would've left him the first time he cheated on me to save myself from all the trouble later.
2007-01-01 11:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not overreacting, its an instinct for a girl to act like you are. I'd be careful, he's probably cheating on you and hoping you won't find out. confront him about it.
2007-01-01 11:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are being set up by this guy and as a result he isn't being truthful to anyone. I know it is hard, but you need to forget him and move on.
2007-01-01 11:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you before you should have already broken up with him.
2007-01-01 11:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by pepsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋