and sleepz with another girl but he realisez wat he had been up2! and he came back to u n sayz babez i love u so much!can giv ma life 4u plz 4giv me n be with me im soo soo sooooo soi wat ever happend it waz a misstake dont no how it happend!! im soi n says that i love u 4giv me!!!..............................
2007-01-01 11:38:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would forgive the mistake for the simple fact that he told you before he was caught. That being said.... the relationship would still be over. Once the trust is gone there is nothing left.
2007-01-01 11:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard alot of stories where cheating saved a relationship becuase the person that cheated realized that the other person is what they really wanted.
One of my friends cheated on his girlfriend and confessed to her and it kept them together becuase the girl was going to break up with him becuase she thought he didn't care. But becuase he confessed it made her think he cared about her.
Now, my personal opinion... absolutely NOT!! I am a jealous person as it is so if my boyfriend ever cheated on me I'd be a basketcase everytime he wasn't around me thinking "Is he out with another girl?" "Is he out cheating on me?".
Also if you caught him cheating that different then him coming out and admitting it to you. I'd say if he confessed to you he's telling you he did wrong and is asking for forgiveness.
Keep in mind that if you do forgive him he may think he can take advantage of you...ex: He may think "I cheated on her once and she forgave me I could probably do it again and I'll just say I'm sorry and she'll forgive me".
Think long & hard about this. If you do end up forgiving him though, and it does it again... get rid of him!! You don't need that ****!
2007-01-01 19:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like ur sorry, but honestly, you'll be in trouble for a long time. If you know you cant be trusted, dont hurt her anymore. Dont kid yourself. Dont waste her time if you know ur gonna just mess around again. She may or may not forgive you, and that's her choice, cuz what you did was not good. Accept whatever her answer is, and if she says she needs more time to think about it, give her time.
2007-01-01 19:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Advice Giver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-01-01 19:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... your speech pattern is really annoying.
I have no man, but thanx 4 the points soo soo sooooo much
2007-01-01 19:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be jocking!! You shouldn´t even talk to him. Dump his belongings in garbage and that´s it. You deserve a better guy. Good luck
2007-01-01 19:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by icecool_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should because he came to u and told u wut he did...there is such thing as it meaning nothin....it would hav been better if yall had taken a brake and then he did it...but i think u should...but if he does it again then no...most of the time i say once a cheater always a cheater...but if he came to u to right the wrong i say give him another chance!!!
2007-01-01 19:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Once a cheater always a cheater.Tell him to get lost.
2007-01-01 19:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't 4give him but i MIGHT give him a 2nd chance.As long as i believe that he is truely sorry!!!
2007-01-01 19:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you have got to type complete words please! i could hardly understand you. second, DO NOT forgive that b@stard! he went behind your back once and baby he'll do it again without a problem! good luck
2007-01-01 19:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by candi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋