I met two guys and I want to get to know both before I commit to one or niether of them. I do not want to feelings to get to involved and I think they are starting to think they are the only one. I am not sure about either of them until I know more about them.
2007-01-01 11:33:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mateesta B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be upfront and honest from the get go, miss thing. You are a single, available lady and any guy trying to get to know you should be told this, and that until or unless you find someone worth enough to be your exclusive, you are free to date. This needs to be told to anyone and everyone you date whether you have a "pair and a spare" or not! The rules of dating are finite, but guys won't be upfront about it all the time. Trust me. I felt like you once, and I got schooled. Also, don't tell a guy anything that a boyfriend should know. Leave 'em guessing; adds the mystery. Follow my advice and you will have them both eating out of your hands and competing for you, with the knowledge of each other, or the weaker one, or both will go away, and if they do, they weren't worth it anyway.
2007-01-01 11:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by volkgal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One, be totally honest, and two, don't be sleeping with either of them! There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating two people at once. People only think that because "dating" has become a euphemism for the other thing. If either of these guys takes offense because you're not ready to be exclusive, that should be a good clue to help you know he's not the one.
2007-01-01 11:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats good your casually dating more than one guy. It gives you the chance to get to know someone but your not so blinded by that single person that you would be exclusive with them even though they may not be right for you. Just let them know that your just dating to see where things go. Its no guarentee they will both want to stick around or you'll want either one of them. Just have fun getting to know them. Good luck!
2007-01-01 11:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by W.E.S. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both that you are dating them as friends and that there is nothing exclusive.
2007-01-01 11:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Biker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Deception hurts everyone.
2007-01-01 11:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cheater!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 11:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋