I am a 24 year old male virgin. I strongly don't want to have sex till marriage because I believe in being responsible for my actions and not getting carried away. So I am still a virgin. But with all the talk about sex am I missing out?
2007-01-01 11:26:10 · 37 answers · asked by TR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it's amazing that you are still a virgin..you don't really get that many guys owning up to their virginity...am proud of you in a way....well,personally i don't think you are missing out...you are saving yourself so much trouble and worry..sex in these days has become the rock of a relationship...you know what i mean?
these days there's nothing to look forward to,in a relationship...i think as soon as sex comes into the picture then there's nothing else to keep two people together....it's brilliant that you are waiting for your wedding day...i think you should....no matter how strong the urge gets,try to stand by your belief...it will do you good....
P.S people who have had sex,still do the same things virgins do...virgins aren't that different..they are people too....
2007-01-01 13:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not in the terms you think you mean.
Sex, is like food and the establishment where one eats it. Sometimes, I like to dress for the occasion of going to a decent restaurant and consuming a well cooked steak-Diane and a decent coffee. At other times, I’m happy to eat in a greasy spoon café and indulge in a good fry-up with tea and a daily newspaper. At others, I would just like a simple ham or a tuna salad with lots of tomatoes and fresh / French bred and real butter with a drink of Dubonet & lemonade.
Each fulfil the same end result, it’s just to do with mood and the desire for its prevailing sense of quality that brings on the difference.
If you are lucky, then later, when there are meaningful emotions between you, then the sex, the fulfilment and the bonding - the sense of intimacy, can be very special and rewarding.
However, as the sales pitch goes, you pays yer money and makes yer choice.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2007-01-01 11:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "only" 20yrs old I am not the best person to post, but as a fellow virgin I congratulae you on sticking to your beliefs. Dont listen to what other people tell you about how great sex is. I am sure that emotional and physical fallout from free sex outweighs any bonuses or "Braging Rights" that you may think you will get. Stay true to your cause
2007-01-01 11:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Meteor Crater Boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are missing out. But that does not mean you should go ahead. If you can keep yourself under control all the time then it can't be that big a deal from your point of view. However, having relationships, some sexual, can give a broader perspective and maturity to life and women, which can be an assett when you take that big step into marriage.
2007-01-01 11:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice. In this day and age, I think it's unwise to try to enter a lifelong bond if you are not sure if you are totally compatible, and the sex side of your relationship can be very important. So if you do want to be responsible for your actions, explore the physical side of any serious relationship before making it legally binding. Then if you marry, take the condom off and away you go!
2007-01-01 12:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not missing out at all and it will be a very special thing when you do do it. I don't see any reason to rush things and if your partner or future partner has trouble dealing with that then maybe they are not the one. Anyone should be prepared to wait for the man/woman that they love.
Being responsible is good. There's no problem at all with being responsible. More people should try it.
2007-01-01 11:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no TR you are not missing out! I know a girl who is twenty-seven and has had four partners and three abortions. Now she wishes that she were a virgin, but there's no way she could ever go back to being one. Hold on to your purity until you have found the right person and then marry that person and share yourself with her. If you two marry and commit to one another you will have no regrets sharing yourself with her.
2007-01-01 11:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by little lamb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you marry a female vergin then no your marriage will benfit from both of you being a vergin. If not then you'll know she has had sex and you might always wonder what it's like with someone else. I'd say my premarital sex was better then after marraige sex. Mainly b/c after marriage my wife stopped putting out as much
2007-01-01 11:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Answerman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not sweet youre not missing out .Although sex is a gr8 thing and is not overated .Its useless and pointless to have it with all and sundry , And it appears youre beliefs are very important to you so make a deal with yourself you havent had it by 30 then have it with some one you care about as there are no guarantees that youre going to get married XXX
2007-01-01 11:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful as to which comments you will listen to. Some are going to respond like true heathens. With that said, You are only missing out if you never get married and become a monk.
Hope that helps.
2007-01-01 11:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by volkgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋