All the while he does this in front of your face. And I keep letting him hurt me..He say's he loves me, but he doesn't act like he does...What should i do, what can I do to move on?? I just need help!!!!!
2007-01-01 11:14:38 · 16 answers · asked by mixedgurl19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul!" is a very famous quote. That would be YOU! You are the ONLY one that can do something about the way you're being treated. When you've had ENOUGH of it, then change it! Good Luck! The first step is the hardest to make.
2007-01-01 11:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is NEVER - I repeat NEVER a reason that is acceptable for being abused!
LEAVE NOW! Get help anyway you can! Call 911 if you have to. Call the local United Way - they can direct you to a whole slew of help - anything from counseling to emergency money to a shelter for some where to stay if you need it.
Above all - LEAVE! No one EVER deserves to be abused! Not physically, emotionally or psychologically!
I wish you the best of luck and blessings for you in the coming year! It will be hard but you can do it! I did after 7 years of it!
You will find that life is much happier without always having to wonder if you're about to be attacked be it physically or mentally!
Good Luck - My Prayers are with you!
2007-01-01 11:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sherri R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Question is why do you let him?
It's obvious he doesn't love you, respect you, care for you, let alone give a damn about your feelings.
How many nights do you need to cry yourself to sleep? How much of your life is being spent in emotional torment over this guy? And why do feel he's worth it?
Get away from this guy. Do other things to keep your mind occupied. Take up a yoga class, fencing, volunteer work at the hospital or shelters.
Do something nice for yourself. Learn to like, respect, and love yourself again. And never, ever let some abusive idiot like that come into your life again.
2007-01-01 11:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How to move on- just make up your mind and do it! Maybe it seems like a hard thing to do because he's beaten down your confidence, but you know you have to do it. Remember you don't need a man in your life. You will be a thousand times better off and happier when you're single. In time you will be ready to meet a real man who treats you with respect.
2007-01-01 11:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you nevertheless with him? he's cheated on you, it potential he would not take exhilaration in you sufficient to be dedicated to you. would not rely how he sugar coated it, there's a reason he cheated on you interior the 1st place You deserve somebody who can take exhilaration in you sufficient that no different lady can take your place. not that loser. Stuff occurs, you will desire to enable bypass of the previous. what's substantial now could be not your abortion you had, it somewhat is the previous now. what's substantial is your destiny. do you want to smash your destiny as a results of fact of your previous? you have so lots extra previous to you, you basically would desire to locate the braveness to enable bypass of the previous, and you will flow on. remember, you may;t replace what's handed off. Staying with him will basically make extra regrets for you. It has to end right here.
2016-10-19 08:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let a guy abuse you, if he can't treat you with respect leave! When you're in love with someone, you always go out of your way to help them, not treat them like crap.
2007-01-01 11:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shoudl break up with him yeah u probably love him but but if he is breaking ur heart by hurting u u shoudl do the same well good luck and god bless you
2007-01-01 11:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kali Gavette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sweetie many may say that your crazy, but i think your just really really really loyal LOL. but please do yourself a favor and leave him. trust me i have cheated on the love of my life and i regreat it all the time. i told her and its over, but you know what she deserved better, and i really hope she finds it, and it made me a way better person. good luck to ya babe
2007-01-01 11:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by wonder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ur butt OUT of that relationship b4 u get hurt
2007-01-01 11:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Hinata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself together and kick him out of your life. You deserve a better life. Stop suffering. God bless
2007-01-01 11:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by icecool_oh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋