so like my best friend, doesnt know im in love with her. i no i wont have a chance with her, and seeing her hook up with all these guys hurts. i dont think i can see her anymore, im thinkng of just droping her as a friend and just drifting away, i cant take to be around her anymore, it just hurts to bad... ive never felt like this before....what should i do?
2007-01-01 11:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by ampedaboutit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're thinking of ditching her as a friend just because it hurts to see her hook up with other guys, well, I guess you don't value her friendship too much.
no it hurts to see her absolute gorgeous face, and be around her knowing i love everything about her, and she wont feel the same.
2007-01-01 11:18:37 · update #1
IF you are going to risk losing her anyway, you might as well make your feelings known to her. She's obviously looking for something or maybe she's just hooking up with these guys because they are disposable. She may prefer a more stable guy , but he hasn't spoken up yet. She's not trying to starve, but she doesn't want to ruin the meal either.
2007-01-01 11:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Neptune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drop her as a friend. Bad idea. How do you know you don't have a chance? I think you should tell her. Anyway, if you're thinking of ditching her as a friend just because it hurts to see her hook up with other guys, well, I guess you don't value her friendship too much. She's your BEST FRIEND. You'll find a way to work it out if you really care about her.
2007-01-01 11:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you should tell her how you feel. If yall been friends, then you'll have a good chance with her, bc yall both know each other. You shouldn't loose her competely bc then you'll end up thinking about her all day if you really like her. If you can't tell her then write to her, if she rejects you then you could stop talking to her, but if yall been friends for a while then you should have a good chance, so i think that you should go for it, just tell her, and you should feel some relief.
2007-01-01 11:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel their was this guy i grew up with and fell in love with him later on truth he liked me to but we neva got together and i glad because we are so different but so alike
2007-01-01 11:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by kam_904 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude don't loose her as a friend, tell her how you feel. and trust me dude she may not like you now, but who knows what could happen down the road..... Good luck
2007-01-01 11:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are to drift away, you should explain clearely what you feels and you will loose nothing in doing that!
2007-01-01 11:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by kirktad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know you should tell her how you feel. If she is not up for it then let her go.
2007-01-01 11:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DROP HER. TELL YOU HOW YOU FEEL EVEN IF SHE JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS THEN STAY FRIENDS DONT LOSE HER
2007-01-01 11:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋