What should I do , these girls at my school talk about my clothes ?

Question

Thy gang up on me and threaten me I also told teachers And the head principal. I'm scared to go to school after break.

Answer 1

You should tell your parents/guardians, if you haven't already. Also, make sure you email the complaint to your teachers and principal, and keep a copy of the email for your records.

Your parents/guardians should have an immediate meeting with the principal, and actions should be taken to help you feel safe. If that does not happen, your parents/guardians need to contact an attorney, who will take care of the problem for you.

Answer 2

The Problems of Children ... :
- An Ongoing Search for Solutions
- Children Deserve to be Wanted and Loved
- The Solution at Last!
- Help for Young People
- The UN Declaration of the Rights of the Child
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2000/12/8/article_01.htm

Try sharing this series of articles with your parents, & school authorities. You don't say what kind of threats, so we have very little to go on, regarding offering detailed suggestions.

Answer 3

Things like this happend to me when I was in like 6th an 7th grade. By grade 8 I started not to care, and my classmates seemed to mature a little. Throw them for a loop. Set things straight you have the right to stand up for yoursef. Ask why do you care so much about my clothes, your picking on me is annoying. Be logical, not confrontational, do not swear or yell or insult them. Just ask them why? and when they answer some smart *** way like "because you deserve it" then just say "I certainly do not and you know it." Chances are they are way immature and have to gang up on you to feel powerful themselves because they are really insecure and need that attention.

Dont be scared, these people will just have a bad effect on your grades, and you are going to school to learn. Not to be the most popular, not to be friends with dummies like that. Education is number one. Keep telling yourself that and the teasing will seem not as bad because that isnot your focus, your education is.

Answer 4

most kids bully other kids because of their own insecurity's and short comings. They are looking for a reaction and they are getting it. Ignore them, if they figure out that it doesn't bother you it will no longer be "fun" and they will stop. may take a little time but hang in there!! Walk with friends of teachers in between classes; safety in numbers. The police teach that all the time. Till then I wish you goo luck and safe hall travels.

Answer 5

I use to get picked on for my clothes when i was at school, because my mother couldn't afford to buy us the "cool" clothes. If that's the case, just tell them to go jump.
I love the fact that most schools have a uniform now, as they are all wearing the same thing, and cant be picked on for their financial situation

Answer 6

If you let them know that you talked to your parents, they will just make fun of you more.

You shouldn't care what they think. Just ignore them and don't even talk to them. If it bothers them, just keep doing it. If they really bug you, tell them to get a life and that you are allowed you do whatever you want. You can wear whatever you want, they are just insecure about themselves, so they pick on you. Just don't let them get to you. They aren't worth the time. Still, contact the principal, because harassing is a serious issue in schools.

Answer 7

They must be jealous of you. You are proably better looking than they are. That is how it is in school people are just jealous.
Tell your parents about this and let them talk to the board of education because they have a no-bullying act in effect. (You can sue the school when they do nothing about your complaints of being bullying)
Tell them you will sue if they can't do something about it. Also say you are not wanting to come to school because of this and that you are going to get homeschooled and see how fast they will take care of this problem.
Good luck

Answer 8

I'm not saying to fight, but stand up for yourself. Apparently there is something wrong with those girls and they choose to pick on you for their frustrations. Say to them, if you don't like my clothes, FINE! Just leave me alone, you opinions don't count! Make sure you tell your parents or your guardians. Also re tell your principal and your teachers. Don't let no one bully you! Or control you! Walk with friends who care about you, they wont gang up on you if more than one person is with you.

Answer 9

Honey... kids are tough on each other. You have to be careful because you don't want to give them more to bother you about.

Try doing something adults do that's called "taking the wind out of their sails" by saying something completely honest and out of your control. Tell them that you have no choice in the clothes you wear and that your mom/dad chooses. They still may bug you but remember to move on and really try to not let them get to you.

Remember.. it's a persons action and not what they wear, drive, eat, etc who makes them who they are.

Good luck sweetie!

Answer 10

let them ealk; talk is cheap! They talk of your clothes because the ones they wear are crappy. Don't be afraid to return to school b/c then they've think they are the better person stand up to them no matter how afraid you are b/c people can only take so much and you've had enough and if that don't work turn to your mom!!!