Not that im going to do this but...coz im bored and a bit horny, my mind is playing over time. If u have been seeing someone for a few months and wont to 'play' them so basically there at their knees 4 u. How could you do this and not fall in love with them too? seperate your emotional feelings but keep them hooked on you and have great sex?
2007-01-01 10:02:54 · 17 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not asking if u approve!!!!! Im asking how it could be done. If u dont know then dont answer!!!
2007-01-01 10:09:24 · update #1
A person will usually fall head over heels in love with you if he/she perceives characteristics in you that are similar to his/her ideals, including sex-related ideals (e.g., if you're a great kisser, if you're a dynamite in bed, etc.). If you want that person to fall in love with you, you have to brush up on your research and find out what it is that he/she likes and/or admires in a person and do your best to be in passing acquaintance with those qualities without insincerity. Hopefully that will work and keep him/her hooked on you.
On the flip side of your question, there is no guarantee that your heart will be immune once you have accomplished your mission of getting him/her to fall in love with you. Your emotional feelings could be compromised in the process of getting to know him/her and being the ideal person that he/she fell in love with.
If you didn't like the person at all in the first place, maybe because of his/her physical appearance, attitude, etc., and just cared for his/her excellent performance in bed, then I guess you'd be safe, because for you, it's just basically mind-blowing sex. But if you even like this person a little bit, then making him/her fall in love with you with the sole purpose of keeping them hooked on you and getting that all-important sex part, then there's a 50-50 chance that your scheme may fail.
Hope this helped.
2007-01-01 10:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by boink1202 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not play with someones emotions like that. Shame on you for even hoping they would fall in love with you. If you are just horny, go take care of it yourself. If you are bored, you can find something else constructive to do. Never play on people. It will come back and bite you in the butt. If you just want sex, tell them that, be honest. I don't recommend it. Sex isn't worth what you are about to do.
2007-01-01 10:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a cruel and heartless thing to even think of doing. Good thing karma comes back around on those who toy with others emotions or have no conscience.
You cannot "make" anyone feel anything...it is there choice...and someone who would consider doing what you have posted, doesn't deserve another person's (romantic) love.
2007-01-01 10:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't something that can be turned on and off like a light switch. The detachment thing is easy, compare him to something you don't like and whenever you come home from being with him contact it. For instance if you hate bananas you should eat one after meeting with him.
2007-01-01 10:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bored has caused many problem for a person.....
Why would you want someone to fall in love with you and not yourself......those are called players
Hit on someone..lie your eyes out.....bed them.....and don't exchange in formation so you can't call them or they you....other wise you have to recall all tthe lies you told to make them fall for you
better than being bored and more fun
2007-01-01 10:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is unquestionably confusing, how do you experience approximately his polyamorous existence style? is this some thing you would be prepared to decide to long-term? it is important, considering the fact which you could no longer assume him to alter merely considering the fact which you fell in love with him. while you're pleased with that (no judgements here - it is so which you would be able to p.c.), then i might ideas-set telling him merely such as you may tell any boyfriend you have fallen in love with him. enable him comprehend you like him and you settle for him and you want to take your relationship to the subsequent point - then anticipate his reaction. it is all you're able to do, and it relatively is important to be common with your self and with him.
2016-11-25 20:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need some serious help you can't play people like that just tell them that you are not looking for a relationship.
2007-01-01 10:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by meka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit scheming and learn how to have a relationship without head games.
2007-01-01 10:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kacky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats mean and selfish. if you don't want to fall for him then dont make him fall for you now im not saying your shallow but thats a shallow thing to do and chidish
2007-01-01 10:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get , cancle a date once in a while , don't tell her your feelings, have other women that you talk to or date. is the best way then you can rotate
2007-01-01 10:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by smurf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋