Im 13 and my bf who is 14 wants to go to second base i didnt want to look dumb so i said ok, im meeting him tomorow and i dont know wat bases mean and how many are there!! HELP!!
2007-01-01 10:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st base is holding hands, kissing.
2nd base is kissing and touching anything above the belt.
3rd base is anything below the belt, but not sex.
home plate is sex.
2007-01-01 10:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by poprocksncoke030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Bases" are basically how far you go with your bf/gf in a relationship.There aren't any official bases but I think this is the basic outline.
1st- kissing
2nd- touching
3rd- actually seeing each other naked
4th "home"- having intercourse/sex
Don't be afraid to say no to any of these things if you feel you're not ready,don't let him rush you into anything.
2007-01-01 10:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by x_new_violence_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=1st+base - this lists all the bases. Honey, a word of advice? one woman to another, if you don't know what it is, you're not ready to even make the decision of whether you're ready or not! Don't ever feel like you're dumb for not knowing something and never do something under pressure - You never have to anything you don't want to / don't feel ready for.
You'll regret it if you push yourself too fast (believe me, I know).
Good luck hun, take care and I hope you have fun tomorrow,
tasha x
2007-01-01 10:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends...everyone is different. Second base used to be kissing, but kids are growing up toooo fast these days so he may want to have sex...I would ask him if i were you.
2007-01-01 10:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st Base: kissing, holding hands, cuddling, hugging
2nd Base: him feeling you up (going under your shirt), you rubbing his chest
3rd Base: touching above and under the pants, oral sex, dry sex
4th Base: having intercourse
2007-01-01 10:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkinpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means you playing with his penis or him playing with your naughty naughty, or your breast
sorry, you can say you thought it was french kissing and thought first base was something else
but theres alot of confusion on the bases
different people say they are different things, so it IS easy to get confused by them
just say if its anything majorly sexual, that you thought it was something else
2007-01-01 10:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to kiss you and touch you where your bathing suit covers, if your not ready tell him no if he doesn't blow you off or spend less time or push then he not only likes you for you but also respects you then you've found a winner
2007-01-01 10:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by smurf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋