Ok so like my bestfriend just broke up with her boyfriend and now her old boyfriend wants to go out with me but they just broke up like yesterday. I dont know what to say! what should i say i need advice!!
2007-01-01 09:55:12 · 6 answers · asked by vballgirl103 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say no! Think about how you'd feel if you'd just broke up with your bf and then your bestfriend jumped straight in with him the next day!! You might as well have stolen him from her!!
Boyfriends come and go - don't risk something as precious as a friend for some guy who just happened to try his luck; others will come along, this is not the one.
If you're anything like a good friend, you'll say no.
2007-01-01 09:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
friends boyfriends are off limits for at least a couple of years after their breakup. Unless you dont value your friendship with her and you are ready to trade a bestfriend for a guy who you dont even kno if he is the one for you.
2007-01-01 18:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by wishopeace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? The corpse is still warm! In fact, if you go out with her ex, it'll look like he broke up with her just to be with you and if she's your best friend, you wouldn't want to do anything to make it look like that.
2007-01-01 18:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by raduodogi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to think about is:
"What would my best friend think of this"
Go to her and tell her what happend i
if she says "o its ok you can go out with him" you should really look into her expressions and body languge cuz that can tell you what she really thinks and is not just hiding it so she wont piss you off!
the second thing you need to think about is:
"what if i had a boyfriend and he did that to me and went and asked my bestfriend out"
wut would you think? how would you feel? wut if your bestfriend said yes and didnt ask you about if first?
there is soooo many ? its crazzy
BUT WUTEVER YOU DO....LIKE IF YOU SAY YES JUST THINK IS IT WORTH LOSING A FRIENDSHIP OVER A GUY (if you dont talk to your friend and she finds out or she says no)
just do wut feels right in your heart
just think over and over "is it really worth it???????????"
NEWAYS wut ever happends things will sort themselves out
GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES THE WAY YOU WANT IT
2007-01-01 18:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by I<3CSI:MIAMI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would talk to your friend first. Tell her that this guy wants to go out with you and see what she says. If she says that she would feel uncomfortable with you going out with him and it would hurt your friendship, tell the guy no and give him the reason. If he's nice, he'll understand. Good luck!
~Rachey
2007-01-01 18:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no because i'm sure that will hurt your freinds feelings even if she says it won't
been there done that and it hurts
2007-01-01 18:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by prissymiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋