i have a boyfriend and lately he's always saying that im doing stuff with my best guy friend that ive known since 6th grade(im in 9th now.) and its getting so annyoing and old that i dont no if i can be with him anymore cuz he doesnt belive me no matter what i say. he says that if im not to stop hanging out with him but im really good friends with himand we are like brother and sister and i dont no what to do? everytime he says anything about it, it just makes me more mad and frustrated more and more, its gotten to the point where i wanna cry everytime cuz i feel so powerless
so i need to no what i can do to help or what is wrong with him like if he has denial problems or he's cheating himself and not me or ne thing??
cuz
2007-01-01 09:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust me.. ditch him.... your friends will be dearer to u in the end...
2007-01-01 09:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Clayton C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience with ex's, I've learned that 95% of the time when your mate accuses you of cheating, it's because:
1. They are the ones cheating.
2. They are jealous.
And as for the "guy friend" thing, don't worry...it could just be a scapegoat for covering up something he's done. Or maybe he's just insecure.
Good Luck
2007-01-01 17:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by xxx_bleeding_x_stars_xxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he want to control your life and that is no good dont let him do it explain to him that you are not going to keep going down that path and if he dont want to hear that well tell him it is over and cut off relationship.He wont like it but oh well there a plenty of fish in the sea as they say be nice doing it and if he gets mad oh well he will get over it and if he hits you call the cops some one like that is not worth having anyway hope that helps!
2007-01-01 17:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by mikekimey47@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I can identify with you because I have always had good guy friends that were JUST friends. You need to explain to your boyfriend that you and your guy friend are purely platonic. Maybe if he hung out with you two he would realize that there isn't anything romantic going on.
2007-01-01 17:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Naja_I5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds insecure, if it's that troubling to you then break up with him....there'll be a number of boyfriends through your teen years and on so don't worry much about this...
One note though...your subject line says "...about my boyfriend thats a guy"...well, if he's a BOYfriend, then he'd have to be a guy, wouldn't he? So the "thats a guy" part wasn't really needed...just a note, in case something similar comes up in your English class.
2007-01-01 17:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf sounds like a jealous little boy. Ditch his ***. If you're not fooling around with your guy friend then you have nothing to worry about. My ex-bf pulled the same crap with me when he was cheating.
2007-01-01 17:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u can't do anything about his low self steam!
2007-01-01 17:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a guy? NO CRAP! lol
2007-01-01 17:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
show him your boobs. that will work.
2007-01-01 17:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋