Ok, so i'm a college student (20 yrs old). I am a honest, respectful, considerate woman. Why does it seem like the guys that I come accross are either immature poor excuses for men, men that lie so bad that they can keep their lies together, or men that are crazy and try to become obsessed with me??? Help....whats a girl to do!!!
2007-01-01 09:17:14 · 17 answers · asked by Trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes i am attractive so stop asking damn.....!
2007-01-01 09:26:58 · update #1
you just have to keep trying... but don't try too hard. just be friends with these guys for a long time first and don't rush into bed with anyone (not that you do now). There are a lot of jerks out there and they give me and all the "nice guys" out there a bad name. the right one will come along.
2007-01-01 09:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are really immature...sorry to tell you, but they are. I'm 22, and when I was in college, I didn't have the best of luck either. The guys I dated were either jealous, stupid, or immature (until I met my fiancee). The weird thing is, I found the older ones to be more immature than the younger ones. Just wait, he's out there. Just date for now, have fun, and don't look for something serious with someone who's definition of serious means "seriously drinking." Good luck!!
2007-01-01 09:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by miz e. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you meeting all of these guys under the same conditions? Like, college students at clubs or parties? Try dating outside your usual scene.
2007-01-01 09:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by inkantra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle for any of those guys
they're not worth ur time
if u need to go elsewhere to look for a respectable bf
more than likely ur just finding for the wrong type of guys, keep looking and u'll find Mr. Right
2007-01-01 09:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation... i just dont think they will ever grow up.. or it seems you find someone your interested in and they are taken or not over an ex... i was in a relationship for almost three years and just ended about 5 months ago and being single sucks... just go with the flow and dont try to hard
2007-01-01 09:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by snookie24a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying!! It's nice to see a woman with brains
2007-01-01 09:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by A*l*i*e*n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pathetic short answer is to keep trying... as ol' Jesus said, separating the wheat from the chaff is no easy task! Would people consider you "coyote" or "butt" ugly... this could be a deciding factor...
2007-01-01 09:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by elric_melnibone01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in case you're a woman, it in simple terms means which you're no longer alluring adequate to maximum adult men. in case you won't be able to alter your looks, a minimum of attempt to alter your image - greater effectual make up, greater effectual clothing, greater effectual posture, etc. - so as which you will a minimum of get them to ask you out on a ordinary date.
2016-10-06 07:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating some older guys that have grown up.
2007-01-01 09:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to go out and find a guy like me. Charming, smart, and just plain amazing. Then again, there aren't a lot of guys like me....
2007-01-01 09:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋