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i like this instructor who works at the local gym, Whenever i go there, he always chats to me for about 45 mins to an hour on a one to one about all kinds of stuff, he always asks me to go in when he is working, he tells me the times of when he was working and asks me to go in and see him. He came into the gym looking for me once too. He has given me compliments and also walked me to my car the once, and I never notice him talking to any other girls! He has a girlfriend but has recently split with her, and he told my friend that he knows that i like him and that he doesnt want to lead me on, so now I'm really confused, it really seemed like he liked me, could it be it's too soon for him? do you think he likes me at all?

2007-01-01 09:14:46 · 18 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

nope.

2007-01-01 09:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Josh 3 · 1 0

I want to keep an open mind about this person because maybe he is a good guy and I could be wrong. However, I think his behavior before he broke up with his girlfriend was questionable because if he was a good boyfriend he would never have flirted with you in the first place. Also, I know you are a very attractive woman, but keep in mind he could also be flirting with other attractive women during times you were not a the gym. I think maybe he liked you in that he found you attractive and may have wanted to date you, but then he told your friend that he did not want to lead you on because now he is probably dating another woman. Thus, I think maybe in the future if you keep trying to talk to him about it there is a possibility he could ask you out, but would you really want to date a guy that might cheat? He was not faithful to his girlfriend because he was always flirting and it sounds like he likes female attention. I think you are better off finding a man who does not mislead you and who behaves better than this.

2007-01-01 17:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

There's probably a no-dating policy where he works. Don't hope for more. If he could ask you out, he would have already. I suppose you could quit that gym, give him your number and then see if he asks you out.

2007-01-01 17:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1 0

Hard to say. Remember he is making money out of you being at the gym.

2007-01-01 17:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yea, I think he likes you...but may actually be a respectful guy. He's not exactly over his ex, or 100% finished with her, so he's keeping his distance from you. I would just accept it and not pursue anything else from him. If he wants more, I think he'd be more forward for it.

2007-01-01 17:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes he likes you

2007-01-01 17:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0 0

He might like you, but if he'll ever want something from you, he will tell you. So, all you have to do is..do nothing, just wait.

2007-01-01 17:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by adiadi 1 · 0 0

Maybe he just thinks your nicer than other people

2007-01-01 17:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by I heart you! 2 · 0 0

Sounds like he does!

2007-01-01 17:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. CoCo 3 · 0 0

he is doing a pretty good job of not leading you on.

2007-01-01 18:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well lets be honest and forget him, I'll gladly take his place.

2007-01-01 17:21:59 · answer #11 · answered by nbr660 6 · 0 0

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