2007-01-01 09:07:51 · 17 answers · asked by coolgirlannie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you either will or wont. Yes it is a ready made family, but the question is, Do you love him? It is not easy being a stand in parent but it's not the boys fault or his fathers. Take it slow and give it some time, guy's are like mold they will grow on you if you let them! Good luck.
2007-01-01 09:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy and want to be with him you'll have accept his son too. You all should hang out a park or something together and try to get to know his kid a little more. Make sure also to spend some good qualtiy alone time with his father.
2007-01-01 09:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mom~
You are a "package deal"!
Son is first until the day you or he dies!
That is your primary responsibility.
I know- it hurts being second place all the time.
Sex can be fun- but look for the man to be the mate and father figure in YOUR home. You are worth a worthy man!
Good luck dear
2007-01-01 09:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older we get the higher the liklihood the people we date will have kids, and possibly have custody of them. You either accept that he is a package deal with his child, or move on if the 6 yr. old is more than you are willing to deal with at this time in your life.
2007-01-01 09:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u can accept that his son will always come before everything else and that he wil forever be tied to the kids mother then just hang in there and see what happens. make sure the guys worth it cause unless all the grown ups here act like adults and are very well adjusted, u will be in for one drama after another. its a ready made family. be sure you are ready for that.
2007-01-01 09:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to what?
Him having a 6 year old?
This is something you most likely knew about up front. It's a package deal.
2007-01-01 09:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your single have no kids and or do not like kids then why date someone with their own?
Unless you like both of the boys( the father and the kid does not mine that his father has a new girlfriend.) then go ahead with the relationship, but it will get risky especially if the kid does not like you to be his father's new mate.
kid will get jealous, he will become a big pain, and will get tough once older. Show him that you don't want to be his new mommy just become his really good friend and be with his dad with out taking away his time with his dad.
2007-01-01 09:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by escvelocity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get use to it or leave. He must be responsible or he wouldnt have his son with him. Don't even try to get in the middle of their relationship. If you do I hope he has enough sense to throw ur but* out the front door or the back if its closer.
2007-01-01 09:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean what do you do? How old are you? If you can't like his son and play with him.... what do you suppose that tells him about you? You need to connect with his son if you want your relationship to grow. Otherwise, he will eventually get rid of you.
2007-01-01 09:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating him. He has a son and thats not going to change, you knew that from before why complicate matters.
2007-01-01 09:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋