My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. I was expecting to me really sad and cry and pout like I normally do, but after he broke up with me, I felt strangely happy. I was, and still am feeling, hyper and carefree. Instead of feeling sad and crying, I was rolling around laughing and felt happier than I had in a long while.
My boyfriend and I had been having problems, fighting, he had been ignoring me. I wasn't happy, but I really really liked him.
Is it possible I just reacted out of reflex to be so happy? Or do you really think I could actually be that happy after such a sad breakup? Is it possible I could be hiding my feelings and later they will emerge? Or is it actually possible to be that happy?
2007-01-01 09:03:22 · 4 answers · asked by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard to say. If it's me, I think I would have the same problem as you do. How long have u guys been together? Did u both really try to work it out? I think you had enough suffer and sad that's why you are happy now. Keep yourself busy and don't think too much about your bf.
2007-01-01 09:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my marriage of 20 yrs was over, I felt like a huge weight was lifted from my shoulders. We weren't happy for a very longgg time before the breakup so I think I had gone through the grieving process even before the end. People told me I hadn't looked better, and they had not seen me smile so much in a long time. ??? It made me feel a bit guilty so I understand how you feel. He is happy..I am happy and I hope you are happy too!
Keep smiling! : )
2007-01-01 09:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEY IM HAPPY ABOUT THE BREAKUP W/EX14 YEARS LONG TIME COMING
2007-01-01 09:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you, free at last.
2007-01-01 09:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋