o.k, I've been dating this guy for 2 months and it seemed perfect...at first.But then he stopped calling me,we use to talk everyday.He was so sweet it was almost as if it was to good to be true,I guess he was.He has a history of being a cheater,baller,player,whatever you want to call it.Now he acts like he doesn't care.I think I may be just be using me as a trophie for his friends.So what should I do?Should I try to talk to him,or should I just break it off now and save myself a little misery?
HELP!!
2007-01-01 09:01:40 · 13 answers · asked by frisky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey how are you? Yeah I do not think it sounds like things are going well. Before breaking it off tell him your feeling and if he starts calling and starts making more of an effort you may want to reconsider. Since he has a record of being a player be leary tho because you may just be being used for awhile and then he is done with you. Maybe he was just sweet at first to get you sucked in. If he doesn't change his ways dump him but i would definatly say state the problems you are having with him first.
2007-01-01 09:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Frisky,
The best guide to current and future behavior is past behavior.
Sounds like you pretty much have his number... WHY WOULD YOU WASTE YOUR TIME WITH ANYTHING FURTHER???
Certainly talking wouldn't have any result other then him telling you what you want to hear and continuing to do what he wants..
I think not... You should let it go and just quietly move on...
FYI - I used to be the talker... today, it's really simple, If I'm not happy, I just move on... If they ask, I tell them why.. My theory is, if you don't already know how to treat someone, I don't need to be the one you learn on..
- good luck
2007-01-01 17:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off if he has that kind of reputation then you shouldn't have been with him in the first place but I can see how you were giving him a chance. I suggest you dump him and leave it at that.
2007-01-01 17:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he stopped calling you. Sounds like he's already broken if off...why did you get involved with him anyway, knowing his history? Why would you think anything would be different?
Learn the lesson and move on.
2007-01-01 17:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has a history of being a cheater how can you ever trust him? Send him on his way before he breaks your heart.
2007-01-01 17:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally never believe what others say about someone. I always form my own opinons. Tell him how you feel and if he is still cold, then break it off.
2007-01-01 17:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save yourself a lot of misery.
2007-01-01 17:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off now and save your dignity.
2007-01-01 17:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like you don't care either...don't become a habit....besides, if he's acting like that, he's got his eye on someone else.
2007-01-01 17:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's already done and gone. Move on. No big explanations. He'll know, i.e. he does know!
2007-01-01 17:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋