We've only been together for almost 4 months, and he is wonderful to me, but he is very secretive about his myspace. I cannot look at it because it is set up as private and he does not have me as a friend, and I know he has a bunch of girls on there. There is no doubt in my mind about that. I do not trust him anymore, not after this :( But, I care about him and wonder if we can get past this. We do not have any kids together, but he does from a previous marriage, and we are both 24 years old. Should I give him a second chance or mend my broken heart. But how do i mend my broken heart?
2007-01-01 08:57:51 · 28 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He says the girls on there are just friends and nothing more.
2007-01-03 09:10:59 · update #1
if he's cheated...forget him....he's not worth your time......to mend your broken heart.....do activities that DON'T involve him.....join an aerobics class and get toned up....when u strut by him when you're finally healed.....he will be so mad he messed things up with you......i know you can do it
2007-01-01 09:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Charishma S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actually found out that my girl friend was cheating through myspace too. Except we were together for 6 years and I actually found some messages that described what she did with the other guy. I had to get her password emailed to her email address wich I already new the password to. Any ways. I alos asked a very similar question when this happened to me. Check my old quesitons out when you get a chance. After about a month and a half of thinking it over I realized that it is best to wait untill you are thinking more clearly to make a decision. YOu don't have to do anything now. Just wait and give it time. You will later find out that their are other people out there who will know how to treat you right or you will realize that you can't live with out this guy and you want to work it out. In any case it is best to wait. You will have some days where you forget about him and others where you can't stop thinking about him. With time though you will start to see the bigger picture and make a better decision. Plus if you really want to see if it was ment to be you should let him go. its true what they say. Also, he might not realize what he has and if you just leave him for a while he might appreciate yo more.
By the way. It does not sound like you have concrete evedence of him cheating on you. I would first make sure before you jump to conclusions.
2007-01-01 09:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by JV 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's being all secretive about his myspace of all things, I would not put any trust in him at all. I wouldn't try to salvage that, he sounds like he will always be doing something you don't know about, like cheating. Just try to move on, it'll get easier day by day and you will find a guy who does let you see his myspace.
2007-01-01 09:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lot's Wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all can you have a relationship with someone you said you can't trust? Seriously if you don't have trust in a relationship you can't have much more of anything. It seems to me like he has let you see what he is really all about. You have 2 choices either learn to trust him again or get rid of him. But seriously would you want to be #2? If a man truly loves you then there is no other woman in his life except for his mama and sister. Serioulsy, do you want to be treated like this? You should be a #1 not a let me have both. You need a one woman man!
2007-01-01 09:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm apologizing in advance because I'm about to be very blunt. MySpace is a lovely tool I'm sure but if he can't be honest with you about that then what else do you think he's lying about? I think you should realize that you deserve better than someone who is going to cover up something as petty as MySpace. Also, tell him from me, that there is a real world out there with actual human interaction. MySpace isn't real life.
2007-01-01 09:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Always a Mentor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, can you still salvage the relationship??? You aren't the one cheating so why is it up to you to salvage it??? And the bigger question is this, why would you want too?? He has already proven he can't be trusted and that he doesn't care enough for you to have you on his friend list, whats up with that? You need to have more self-respect for yourself sweetie, and kick this guy to the curb. You deserve to be treated better than this and there is someone out there you will appreciate you and respect you the way you should be.
2007-01-01 09:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. You say you caught him cheating on myspace, but then you say you've never even seen it in the first place? I say you create a bogus acount and friend him so you can verify whether or not he even is. Then, and only then, should you proceed to humiliate his cheating *** and use his page as proof. If he's not, just pretend like you've never seen the page and forget all about it.
2007-01-01 09:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by zomgfletch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree with the person above, having bad habits does not automatically make you a bad person, what he did was wrong, but doesnt mean hes not gonna change, he should be begging on his knees if he really wants u back and if he really wants this relationship to work because he screwed up, but i think u should make him let u see his myspace and just let him earn his trust back in however much time ur willing to give him! good luck!
2007-01-01 09:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by charlotte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm married and i browse to myspace like there is no tommorow. what are the odds of meeting someone in person through my space. all my so called friends are hot chicks. never had a problem i'm 30 years old. my space is for fun not to be taken seriously.
2007-01-01 09:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who are secretive are usually hiding something heavy. My advice to you is to get a friend to join his myspace friends list and see what he's up to-this just seems weird.
2007-01-01 23:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 07:24:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋