He said that the relationship was awesome and that there was no one else but just said that he doesnt want to hang out anymore. He never let me meet his mom when we were going out. Could that have something to do with it? Because I know that he likes me a lot and said so himself but he just did this unexpectedly. What should I do about it? He wants to be friends and he said that if he wanted to date again, I would be the first person to know. Does that mean he wants to take things slower or something?
2007-01-01 08:53:35 · 26 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how can a relationship be awesome after 9 days.... obviously it wasn't a real relationship to begin with....
2007-01-01 08:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Rose, my darling, when a guy acts like that, he wants out of the relationship. You deserve a guy who is 100percent for you. This isnt the guy for you. I dont have a clue why he terminated the relationship, but since he did, try and let him go and be graceful about it. Someone else will take your mind off of him someday.
2007-01-01 17:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, you 2 did date. I don't want to insult you, but maybe he thinks you are boring. Maybe he is afraid to tell you the truth...who knows. Maybe he just does not want to date anymore, or he wants you in the sack, but are not giving in, and that is not your fault.
You stay true to yourself and if he does not want to date you, and you do not know why and he keeps Saying that he just not want to date, then leave him alone and find someone who does like you and does want to date with you for real....
I hope that you will figure it all out....
Good luck..
2007-01-01 17:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Rose,
9 days is hardly a relationship.. Who know why he has made this decision... There is nothing yo can do about it.. I would move on.. If he calls in the future, deal with it then..
- sorry.
2007-01-01 16:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by gjm 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It most likely means that he wants some space. Perhaps he felt like he went too fast with the relationship, maybe you weren't getting to know each other well enough... There's nothing you can really do about it.
2007-01-01 16:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by kate 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
just because he said that don't necessarly mean anything. haven't you ever heard of a lie? he's just not that into you but everyone knows this right here is always the easy way out
2007-01-01 16:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it actually means he doesnt want u, sorry to say it. saying he likes u or that he wants to become friends was just to make it easier to break up, so dont stick much to it. it seems he was seeing it go well, but saw some flaws in u, was trying to convince himself they r ok but then realized he couldnt. i had such experience myself. dont worry it just means he's not the one. go on looking u will find better guys!
2007-01-01 16:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by The cute Anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he was scared that things were moving too fast for him. You already wanted to meet his mom? Slow down girl! :)
2007-01-01 16:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it probably just means he wants to rethink dating a little bit more. you should just hang in there till he is ready to date. it might not take long but if it does take to long... find someone else.
2007-01-01 16:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just went through this. He has a gf. Trust me. He's leading a double life. His feelings got caught up in it so he broke it off before he hurts you. A guy just did this to me thats how I know what it is. Despite him saying its not another girl, there probably is one.
2007-01-01 16:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋