is that bad or is that just normal....
can guys not have fun without touching?
2007-01-01 08:48:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Your boyfriend is showing signs on not having the learned ability to express his feelings in any other way than being physical as in touching and having sex.
He probably grew up without experiencing the heart felt love that would come from a close knit family and as he does not know the protocol in displaying emotional love and feelings, . . . .physical is what you are going to get.
Your relationship can be severely limited as I am sure you are aware in that all the things that are important to you as a woman, you will not be getting, and when he does not get what is important to him, . . . .well, you get the picture.
Probably not good long term relationship material and for your own good, you may wish to start looking.
Sometimes honesty is not always the bearer of good news, but it is honesty and I would be nothing less in providing you with an honest answer.
To answer the last part of your question, yes, guys can have fun without touching. . . . . but sad to say, some cannot.
Darryl S.
2007-01-01 09:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for a guy to be physical with a girl, but weird when it happens all the time. Try this...instead of being physical with your beau, conversate, go see a movie, talk about the latest thing...and yes. Guys CAN have fun without all the touchy-feely.
2007-01-01 08:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Hinata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you mustn't. in case you like love are not getting it that way. it will merely reason extra issues and make issues worse. merely bypass away him and locate somebody who particularly loves you because of the fact fights shouldn't get actual. you're starting to be an 18 month 365 days previous son yet believe me you do no longer desire him to improve up around that. interior the long-term he won't be thoroughly mentally healthful. i comprehend because of the fact my dad abused my mom and that i became youthful yet I nevertheless cry approximately it to on the instant and that i'm 17. So the perfect subject to do could be kick him out and initiate a clean existence and a clean person to share your days with.
2016-11-25 20:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend NEVER wants to get physical. He uses every excuse not to....tired...headache...backache...it is too late..... Your boyfriend is normal. He shows affection is physical ways. If he is good and you like what he does then go for it. But if it makes you uncomfortable then tell him. You two need to communicate and tell each other what ones views are so there are no hurt feelings.
2007-01-01 08:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal.....but guys can have fun without touching...tell him that even though you love the physical aspect of your relationship...you want to do something else for once...ask him if u guys want to go on a walk in the park...play sports together....guys love sports.....videogames are a big hitter too (just dont beat him or he might have a hissy fit =p).....good luck though!
2007-01-01 08:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Charishma S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for guys to be physical and it is normal for girls to want affection but not contact. Your both normal so work it out! Read "His needs Her needs".
2007-01-01 08:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sorry, guys need physical contact unless you're a blood relative or an authority figure.
2007-01-01 08:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural when you first starting getting physical, it'll wear off after a while. Just let him know if you dont want to.
2007-01-01 08:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Abu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way he is, apparently. You and he are sexually incompatible. You and your guy are normal. Not all guys are like him and not all girls are like you. If it really bother you that he's that way and if it bothers him that you don't like it, I think you should re-consider your "relationship"....because I don't think either of you will change. Life's to short and you both deserve to be happy...Right?
2007-01-01 08:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have more urge for physical activities than others.
2007-01-01 08:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋