A few wks ago, i went on 2 dates with a guy i've liked for a while. Big passion, kisses & invited me to his place after the 2nd date which i wasn't ready for & explained to him. After that, he didn't return my call and I was hurt. Since that, I've run into him a few times..we go to the same places. He always looks a little nervous with me and I can see he still likes me as he's friendly and teases me. Then 2 wks ago, he sent me a text..teasing my dancing style. I didnt reply & he texted the next day asking why i didn't reply. So I called him & he was so friendly. I suggested we meet & he said he'd call but didn't instead sent me a happy xmas txt. So I called him a few nights ago to invite him over to my place as a few friends were around for a drink. He said he didn't know if he'd come & would call me. He didn't call but a friend saw him out that night on his own. Maybe he was too shy to come.Please advise, I like him lots. He's now single for 2 yrs after a long relationship.
2007-01-01 08:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hormones are wonderful things huh?
That's all it is- don't read or act any further on it dear.
Sorry the reality of it-He is not into you. He would have been there in your arms if he had, you know it too.
Release it and go find the right man for you.
2007-01-01 08:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stop texting him for a while and instead try to find out from his friends if he really likes you .iam saying that cause the same thing happened to me.its just that when some1 is in love, mostly girls,we always give hopes to ourselves that the person we are in love with feels the same and not otherwise,so think over this guy again and again mayb its not what you think
2007-01-01 09:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy, it sounds to me as though he is unsure how to proceed because it seems as though you are controlling what happens. I know that must sound a bit daft to you, but men always feel that women are in control and he is unsettled by it.
We hate to be rejected, pertly because it embarrasses us and partly because it leaves us unsure about what to do next.
I might be talking rubbish of course, but that's my take on it.
2007-01-01 08:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think he is only looking for sex & one night stands he is not ready yet to move on
2007-01-01 08:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by miss smidgey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him straight out. Be honest with him, and tell what u think.Go for it before the ship embarks,
2007-01-01 08:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what I would do is just keep texting him until he get comfortable enough to be around you and then you would gradually become more and more close with him.
2007-01-01 08:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by SUN-SHINE 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋