My boyfriend left to go get himself some dinner last night and I wanted to go get on the computer. Well he still had a lot of what he was doing on the desktop .
He had his myspace open and I was wondering who his friends were and also looked in his inbox... Well what i found made me really upset. He had been writing his girl he works with a lot of weird messages. Like lets do it at work today, or i will see you in the bathroom at lunch or do you want to see my peepee.
We have been dating for about a year now and I thought we were doing good. We live together we do everything together.
what should i do. i have talked to him but he pretends nothing is going on
what should i do
2007-01-01 08:29:19 · 21 answers · asked by Linds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any man that would call his penis his "peepee" is no loss. He's either a mama's boy or gay. I personally would dump him but I wouldn't let on that I knew anything until I had my finances all in a row.
2007-01-01 08:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult situation, and I'm sorry that you're having to deal with it. My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me, and I know how terrible it can be.
First off, you need to come to him and define what you think is right and wrong. A lot of guys(and girls) think that being perverted online is okay as long as you don't act anything out in real life. However, as you now know, it can be painful and dangerous.
He may not be cheating on you yet, but he certainly seems willing to cheat on you. deal with that.
Be stern with him. Make sure he understands that your feelings are not something to toy with, and that you deserve respect and faithfulness. If he is unwilling to give you that, then he does not deserve you.
Tell him that if there is really nothing going on, then he shouldn't be afraid to let you read his emails, or his myspace, or text messages, or etc. If he has something to hide, he will try to hide it.
And lastly, don't take any crap from him. You are a privelage and if he doesn't treat you right, it is his loss. The more lenient you are with him and the more you let him abuse you, the bolder his actions will be come.
2007-01-01 16:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ray H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weren't you grossed out when you read "do you want to see my peepee?" That's like something a 9 year old would say! I'd do everything in my power to get him to open up and tell me why he would write such incriminating things IF he's innocent.
Happy New Year!
2007-01-01 16:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the "want to see my peepee" should be a clear indicator something is up. he may not be sleeping with them but sounds like he's cheating on you emotionally.
2007-01-01 16:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cofront him and you will know the truth. He may just be flirting, but it's always best to go straight to the source. For your sake, hopefully, he's not cheating. Try to be level-headed even though you may feel like killing him right now. Hear him out and then decide your next move.....Good Luck!
2007-01-01 16:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible he is cheating But if it is confined to the Internet I would not worry about it.I fool around on the Internet and to me it means nothing (I don't expect anything to happen in RL).
now if something did happen at the office then (and only if you have hard proof) Confront him about what happened in the office.
GL
2007-01-01 16:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by bushidobull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop that freak.....you're probably too good for him anyway. He's not respecting you. If he does it once, he'll do it again and again cos he knows he can come back to you. He's a loser and life is too short for that stress in your life, cut your losses and move onto something better. Good Luck
2007-01-01 16:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by 3rd LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, anyone who uses the word 'peepee' is infantile. Not only is he ignoring your concerns, but he's denying they exist. That's abusive!
2007-01-01 16:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Turtleshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby says yes he is cheating, I agree. But what my hubby also said is....Is he gay? Cause men don't say "peepee"! He said Men don't have Peepee's!
2007-01-01 16:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by HushYourFuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you like being lied to? If so, stick it out. It would be one thing if he admitted what he had been up to but just denying it leaves no room for improvement!
2007-01-01 16:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋