She decided to stop seeing each other after 4 months of seeing each other earlier last year, but she knew I really liked her, and I treated her so well and was such a nice guy to her, but she wasn't ready for a relationship (she'd just broken up months before from a long 5yr relationship).
Mid-summer we met up briefly, she seemed to want to see each other again, but after getting my hands-burnt previously (she broke my heart), I couldn't get close again so ignored her calls and so contact phased-out between us, until she tried calling months later in October. I ignored that, but decided to wish her Merry Christmas by SMS, and told her I still think of her, to which she replied "well, we haven't seen each other much lately... :-)... " and so I told her I still liked her, she replied she still likes me too, and perhaps we should meet up.
Not sure whether that's a good idea... (I'm afraid of getting hurt again). Any thoughts or tips on working this out would be really appreciated.
2007-01-01 08:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by James 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't sound like either of you really want to let go.....get together...tell her that you'd like to give it another try but you need to know what she is thinking and what she wants....be honest with her about how you felt when she broke up with you...see what she says...if you do decide to give it a go...take it slow...good luck
2007-01-01 08:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you've put a lot of time and effort in to this and gotten nothing but heartache. Even if things would go well, you'll always remember how she treated you earlier.
Something like this happened to me, and I ended up dumping the chick after a few miserable months.
2007-01-01 16:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like someone who thinks that she can just pick you up when it suits her. Trust me, life is too short for that crap. If she does it once, she knows she can get away with it again and again. Cut your losses and move on, nobody is worth the stress. You'll just be setting yourself up. Get over her and move on, you'll thank me later.
2007-01-01 16:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by 3rd LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to discuss this with yourself. It sounds like you got serious before she did the first time. Is it something you're willing to take slowly this time, or will you fall head-over-heels again? If you're willing to take your time with her the second time around, I bet you'll be pleasantly surprised.
2007-01-01 16:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. don't be chicken.
Better get your heart broken for someone you like than someone you don't.
2007-01-01 16:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart what ever it tells you to do do it
2007-01-01 16:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋