Im confused, I mean I know this guy likes me..it's all there..but I dont get why he hasnt tried anything...like kissing me or even asking me out. I mean he loves my company...he even got me a christmas present in which we swapped and find out we had alot in common then we realized. I mean he is 7 yrs older than me Im 21..so u do the math. But I thought by his age he should know more than I do..and I dont wanna end up making the first move. Why isnt he doing anything..someone help me..lol
2007-01-01 08:09:44 · 10 answers · asked by Angelia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a risk and ask him yourself as scary as it is or just be happy that your friends now and sometime down the road maybe it will lead to something. Just because he is 30 years old doesn't mean he should know how to do those things - he may be just as scared as you.
2007-01-01 08:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relax... Play your cards right don't get anxious it will show whenever he sees you and he'll notice and play with your feelings. And just because he gets you a present don't get crazy. Be the Queen but not high maintenance unless you already are sex as hell and you can any man you choose but from the readying of this letter your so happy go lucky you won't take know ones advice.
2007-01-01 16:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, Iv been where this guy is (at least as you describe him)
he may be painfully shy, he may not know how to approach you in an appropriate manner, Or he maybe just to dam scared to ask you out (it happens) so If you like him , I suggest you ask him out.
2007-01-01 16:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by bushidobull 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have one question for you, why dont you want to make the first move? Guys like it when you make the first move. and if you make the first move, youll get all the problems out of the way. to me it sounds like hes nervous,and thinks that your probably to good for him. Personally I think thats a good thing.So my advice is make the first move if you really like him.
2007-01-01 16:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah well u shud just wait and be patient with him!
but if u are really desparate to know if he really likes u, than u must ask him or make the first move ureself!!
2007-01-01 16:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bilal f 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe, respect - or maybe just wants to be friends. Go ahead and make the first move, then you will know.
2007-01-01 16:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May-be hes shy.Go ahead and make the first move.He could be waiting for you.Don't keep your happiness on hold any longer.Good-luck.
2007-01-01 16:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is showing you respect and he doesn't want to rush things, ask him how he feels about you?but please let him know you are not trying to be lose in the pants you just want to make sure you are on the same page
2007-01-01 16:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by OnTheProwl007 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just wait and see what happens:)
He may not be sure how you really feel about him or maybe he is really shy and nervous.
2007-01-01 16:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relax, take your time........enjoy the journey!
2007-01-01 16:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Turtleshell 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋