I've known this guy for a while now. He likes me, even went as far as saying that he's in love with me. Now, I had my chance to date him but turned him down because I wasn't ready to be in a relationship at that moment. So now, he's with someone else. Even though he is with someone else, he claims that he wants to be with me. Now, I recently discovered (or maybe I already knew) that he is very flirty. Actually, he is a total flirt. So, even though he has a girl, he says that he will still be faithful. I like this guy alot, he is honest, sweet, spiritual, smart, and very loving. But I still wonder that if he's so flirty, can he really be faithful? What do you think? Should I still date him even though he'll flirt with some other chick?
2007-01-01 08:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by Hinata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety no,
If you know he's a huge flirt then who knows how far he's flirting may go if you two ever get together?
He may be " honest, sweet, spiritual, smart, and very loving."
But you know there are plenty of over guys who fit just that dicription heck even better.
Why be in a relationship you can't fully trust...which is understandable why you would feel some doubt because as I said flirts sometimes going beyond cute smiles & nice comments....That's just reality for you....
Good luck girl =]
2007-01-01 08:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Realize not all men are like him. He sounds more like a player, then a lover. Yes he flirts, trying to find someone to hook up with, someone he finds beautiful, someone he can possibly connect with. However the man gets someone else, and he has already worked on you for some time. He just keeping tabs on you, so that if that relationship ever falls apart(and it usually does) he will have help from you. A loving friend...possibly more?
A girl once thought that I was a flirt, and she even said to a point that I was a tease. But I'm not, I just seem that way. Its only because a woman can go and pick out whomever she wants to be with, while a man has to really fight and compete to be on that list.
If you are interested tell him, and the only way he will date you is if he breaks up with his girl. That way even if he is a rotten egg you can end it at that - and the guy will have lost the both of you.
If you are not interested then tell him stop flirting with you, you have a girl, be happy with that. Be honest - be somewhat hard.
2007-01-01 08:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly I'm a total flirt. But I am very faithful. I know it is possible. But I don't want to speak for all guys out there. There is always a chance that he may not be. But Flirts can be faithful.
2007-01-01 08:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by 45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, even though they flirt, they can still be faithful. I am the biggest flirt. I joke around with everyone. But I wouldn't dream about being unfaithful to my wife. I wouldn't ever want to hurt her in that way. Best of luck to you, and Happy New Year.
2007-01-01 08:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE'S A CHANCE THAT HE MIGHT NOT BE...... IF HE FLIRTS ALOT THEN HE MIGHT NOT BE THE RELATIONSHIP/BOYFREIND TYPE. I SEE WHAT YOU MEAN BECAYSE IF HE IS HONEST THEN MAYBE HE WOULDNT WANT TO FLIRT WITH ANOTHER GIRL BECAUSE HE'S HONEST. AND IF HE'S HONEST INSTEAD OF GETTING INTO THE RELATIONSHOP HE WOULD TURN YOU DOWN.
2007-01-01 08:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay Lohan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting it not wrong. Be confident in our self. Let him know that if need be your ability to gain attention is probably better than his on your worse day.
2007-01-01 09:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...giv em a chance
2007-01-01 08:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by ׺°”˜`”°º×LARS ULRICH׺°”˜`”°º× 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋