your engaged to someone else but they live in another state and right now for money probelms she has to live with her x and sometimes her x sees her in the shower is this cheating as long nothing goes on?
2007-01-01 08:09:35 · 13 answers · asked by angel j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH NO, NO, NO Angel, she is being faithful to you for it seems that you consider her making love with her x in the shower does not count as cheating. Come on man, pull your mind together and end this silly relationship.
2007-01-01 08:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with your first answer, it's a bad situation. Make sure that you're totally honest with your fiance', and ask your ex to respect your privacy. As soon as you can leave do it. The biggest part about being true to someone, is not putting yourself in a position to cheat, or even be accused of cheating. That way you're significant other will have total confidence that you're trustworthy. Get out as soon as you can. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-01 16:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry honey but do you really think nothing is going on? If you two are engaged, why isn't she staying with you? Good luck, I hope you get things figured out!
2007-01-01 16:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a really messed up situation...Only you can decide if it's cheating...Me personally, I think it's totally inappropriate for my boyfriend to live with his ex and it wouldn't happen at all on my watch!!!
2007-01-01 16:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok...even if you live with someone...there's a thing ont he door called a lock. i don't understand why he sees her in the shower still. i'd be a little wary if i were you
2007-01-01 16:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by megansa0811 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not cheating...but it doesn't sound like you're financially prepared for marriage, if you can't provide for her any better than that.
2007-01-01 16:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Judi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not cheating but......doesnt sound. there has gottta be somewhere else she can live besides with her ex. something isnt right here
2007-01-01 16:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's playing with fire. I'd try to get the ring back and tell her to get lost.
2007-01-01 16:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd get un-engaged in a hurry, if I were you.
2007-01-01 16:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not cheating unless she does it.
2007-01-01 16:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋