My ex-boyfriend called me last week to see him. He planned the whole thing a movie. I was just really surprised cuz I haven’t seen him in one year and HE was the one who ended the relationship. I agreed and he picked me up but after the movie he drove me home. I kinda felt hurt cuz I felt like he didn’t wanna be there. So after the date I went on msn and I told him that I don’t wanna even see him sometimes and I basically said goodbye forever. He kept saying sorry & I logged out. I felt bad so a week later I went on msn and said sorry and he said it was fine & that he’s not mad & that I shouldn’t worry about it. What is he thinking now? He told me to keep in touch, does he really mean it?
2007-01-01 07:56:54 · 4 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, it sounds to me like he is desperate and might just want some fling or a one night stand. I'm not saying he doesn't like u for u, it's just i know those types of people and well what u described sounds like him. Just let him know that ur in it for more than a fling and that if he just wants to be friends that's fine, but if he wants more ur open to it. Just talk to him about it, or take whatever u feel into ur hands and either end it with him completely or make a move. Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-01 08:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have called you up to see you out of curiosity to see how you are. If you haven't seen him for a year, you've probably moved on by now and are better off.
Don't think about it too much or else you will work yourself up and start bringing old stuff up and feel more emotionally attached again.. Either maintain just being friends and move on with your love life or else just don't talk to him again and wish him well?
The only way to tell what he really thinks is to just ask him straight out.. but be careful if you end up letting him somehow lead you on to get back together without the real intention of doing that..
2007-01-01 16:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't be certain in this particular case but guys are not always the sharpest tools in the shed. We have been known to overlook and orchid searching for a rose. Your Ex may have realized that he screwed up when he left. IMO it is his move and it had better be a damn good one or you should write him off as a "lost cause".
That's my take on the situation. The final call is, of course, yours. Good luck, I hope it works out so you are happy.
2007-01-01 16:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to stay close to you. either hes glad your friends or hes trying to get back with you.
2007-01-01 15:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋