ok so i am going out with this guy that does not live where i live..(so basically it is a long distance relationship) and i found an email that is from another girl signed "your loving girlfriend"...what should i do? he has no way to get out of it because he had a "thing" with this girl before and lied to me about it...
2007-01-01 07:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time to bail out. he lied to you once and now hes doing it again. thats not a relationship thats torture. so kick him to the curb and move on, you can do a whole lot better. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-01 07:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he lives so far awy, how did you find an e-mail to him from another girl? Wierd . . .
Anyway, sounds like too many flags to me. Just break it off clean. Even if it's on the phone, be sure he understands it's over.
2007-01-01 15:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, my question to you is this: Do you really want to be with a guy that lies to you? Are you spying on him? Where did you find the email? Did he want you to find it???
I know that I for one don't want to be with someone I can't trust...
Good luck...
2007-01-01 15:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum: either he sends this girl an e-mail making it clear that it is over with her and you are the only girl he is interested in or find another fella.
2007-01-01 15:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by THe VaN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shud already know what u have gotten urself into, dont u know long distance relationships dont work, and if it does its a chance out of 1 out of a million..... u shud talk 2 him about how u feel about this..
2007-01-01 15:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him and see what he says. Obviously no matter what he says you already know whats going on. It would probably be best for you if you left him and moved on. If he's cheating on you with this other girl (which obviously if she's his gf, he is), he doesn't care for you the way you care for him.
2007-01-01 15:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so dump him and find someone closer to you....long distance relationships rarely work...good luck
2007-01-01 15:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when stuff like this happens, most people want to talk to the other person to clear things up but when its clear
just dont try to contact him, if he contacts you, then you talk
2007-01-01 15:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to him about it. dont overreact or anything and just state how you feel...screaming and yelling gets you no where..using i statements often gets your point across like i fell worried that you might be cheating on me,would you please tell me what is going on
2007-01-01 15:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him alone. He is a liar.
2007-01-01 15:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by ThatStrongBlkWoman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋