i like this guy but another guy likes me. the guy i like i went out with over a year ago but i really like him a lot. my friend told me that the fact that i went out with him doesn't matter. how do i get the guy who likes me to realize that i don't like him back? and how do i let the guy i like know i like him?
2007-01-01 07:20:33 · 8 answers · asked by kaymay09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
open comunication is best - be truthful but not harsh to the guy that likes you. If you dont tell him he will never know - same goes for the guy you like. Me and my freinds joke about how we have to have " to determine the relationship" talks so much with the opposite sex! Open communication and being true to how you feel will always be the best bet for relationships
2007-01-01 07:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by STL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... dig up some courage and tell them?
Go up to the guy you do like and ask him out.
Tell the guy that likes you that you don't want to be his girlfriend. Yeah, it is a rotten thing to do and it hurts to hurt someone else, but you aren't doing him any favors by leading him on.
Yeah, this is the high risk scenario, but think how cool it will be if it works out.
2007-01-01 15:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Larry R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first things first i think you should let the guy that likes you down gently and tell him you just want to friends because you dont want to loose a friend!
the guy who likes you.... meet up with him and see were things go from there give him signs that you like him and see if he reacts on them!
good luck!!! Xx
2007-01-01 15:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by u'd tap this! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go for the guy who like you as that person will take better care of you then other one.
2007-01-01 15:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Illusive One 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront them both. Have confidence, walk up to the one you like and tell him how you feel. Do the same one you don't like. Just say, "Hey I know you like me, but you're nice and all I just don't like you like that back."
2007-01-01 15:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to be straight with both of them!
2007-01-01 15:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by mini mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sweetie....
2007-01-01 15:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so konfusing ! ! ! ! ! ! :(
2007-01-01 15:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by musicrazy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋