Loving or hating?
2007-01-01 07:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by frenzy-CIB- Jim's with Jesus 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It is easy to love someone who is nice to you and loves you, and hate someone who is mean to you and hates you. REAL inner strength comes when we are able to love someone who is mean to us and hates us. I have found that to be the biggest step in changing a persons perception of me if they don't like me is to show them love and be EXTRA nice...it is sooooo hard, but they end up liking me! If I am mean and hateful back, they just dislike me even more!
2007-01-01 07:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by PennyPickles17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe, well I would say that they both take the same amount. You have to use a lot of strength to keep loving someone, sometimes, other times it comes pretty naturally. But hating someone takes a lot because you have to go through the mental stress of knowing that you dont really have a good reason for hating them, and that you should change.
2007-01-01 15:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hating takes more, because you will go out your way to hate some one as much as you could hate a person.
Loving Some One Is Simple, Once You Trust Them, Then It Should Write Its Self. But What Do I know Im Just A Player, Who Would Care Less.
2007-01-01 15:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by hustler.connection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hating takes more inner strength cuz you love by nature
2007-01-01 15:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by WhozThatGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving.
You can hate someone easily. People doing something you really dislike and you can easily turn that into hate.
But...loving someone requires something especial. That someone has done something that created like good scar in your life and are people that we will always remember. How many people have u known in your life? And how many of those people will you remember? Those are the people you love.
2007-01-01 15:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving. Hating is weak.
2007-01-01 15:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Nel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hating. It's not in our nature to hate, but it is to love.
2007-01-01 15:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by 22sa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hating
2007-01-01 15:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the subject of the emotion.
2007-01-01 15:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by STFU Dude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋