I have this cute crush. I know he likes me back, but every girl in my school loves him too.What should I do?

Answer 1

All you need to do is this and forget the other girls. If he likes you, and you like him. ITS WAR!!!!!!!!!


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Keep in mind that you cannot control what other people think and do. He may be your crush, but that does not create any obligation that you be his crush. Turn the situation around. If there were some random boy in your school who had a crush on you, is there anything that boy could do to *make* you like him? Probably not. You will like him or not. You will find him attractive or not. You will find him funny or not. All he can do is try to be the best person he can be, and hope that you agree. The reverse is also true. Trying to "get" a specific person to like you is generally manipulative, something that no one finds attractive or wants to be the object of.
Confront your crush confidently.Talk to him about something you have in common. Maybe that he likes basketball and you play on the basketball team. Invite him to one of your games. DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT FREEZE UP IN FRONT OF THE PERSON... JUST TALK TO THEM LIKE THEY WERE AN OLD TIME FRIEND. Hey, no one said this was going to be easy.
Don't be obsessed with the person. Don't be like "Oh my gosh! It's him! He's looking at me! Do you think he likes me? He's sooo hot!" You know, that kind of obsessing. If he looks at you, just wave and smile. That way, you won't look stupid.
Let him have his own space. If you follow him around all day and always sit next to him, he will be annoyed by you and will try to avoid you. Just sit by him at lunch every two weeks and maybe sit by him in class once a week.
He needs to know you like him. If he doesn't know, then he will feel foolish about liking you. Even if the whole school knows you like him, you should confront him and tell him... even if it is on the phone or through an e-mail.
Don't force him to like you. Relationships take time. If you force him, all he is doing is faking it.
Look for signs and signals that he likes you. If he blushes when you say something nice about him, if someone asks him if he likes you and he blushes, if he's really nice like a friend and tells you stuff like you were one of his other boy friends and doesn't tell other girls, these are some of the signs to look for.
If he asks you to the dance or prom don't hesitate. If you want your friends advice make up an excuse. Say something like, "That would be great but let me check my calendar if I have anything going on that day," OR "Let me see if it is okay with my friends, we were planning to go together if no one asked us. But otherwise, that would be great!" Let him know that you want to go even though your nervous. Don't let him know that you ARE nervous.
Take baby steps. If he asks you at a prom or dance to dance with him, he's either being nice or he likes you. Take the dance, you're one step closer to being his girlfriend!
If you don't know what he likes, find out what he likes. Talk to his friends, talk to HIM. Just say, " Hey, do you like sports? What type of sports do you like? I like basketball and soccer. They are really fun." Just have a casual conversation and let it flow.
You don't need to wear make up or be pretty to make a person like you. All you have to do is be your self. Don't get me wrong, being pretty is kind of helpful, but it is not a must have. If you just have to wear makeup, wear one that highlights your eyes. It will make you absolutely gorgeous!
Most importantly, concentrate on improving yourself in a holistic way [in other words, not superficial things like makeup, clothes, or body]. Boys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives. Cultivate your own interests; don't define yourself by some boy or try to mold yourself into the person you think some specific boy wants. Desperation is never attractive. Boys might like to look at Paris Hilton or others of that type, but they don't want to date her.

Answer 2

Well try to reject him first. I mean, the next time he flirts with you, and he asks you out, try to reject him, and if he doesn't care, then it means he's not really into you. But if he continues to flirt, he seems to want your attention. Try talking to him, but if you're too shy to ask, then try testing him. But in my opinion, it seems he's just not really into you like that, there may be a chance where he tries to get your friend who he use to like jealous. Good luck!

Answer 3

get together with him... or if you don't, he might change his mind and like one of the other girls that likes him back
hurry up, becuase if you decide to later on. it'll be too late

Answer 4

be the one that stands out - in a positive way (ie no stalking) - talk to him, touch him. don't ask him out, because that would make you seem desperate.

Answer 5

Meet him in a secret place and tell him how you feel.

Answer 6

Let him make the first move, if he likes you, he will.